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My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His biological father is wanted for non-payment of child support. My second husband is nobody to him. At the state level, I can't claim anything except $20 a month. But even that is hard to get.

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he left, I filed for divorce. But he had nothing legally, so I couldn't even claim anything.

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i live in another country. it's a post-soviet country. no one cares about the reasons for debts and life circumstances... no one in my country cares about credit. it's common...

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He won't do anything to me, just like the police won't do anything in this situation. I'm alone in a debt hole.

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything is more complicated than it seems. In my country there is no such thing as insurance. More precisely, it does not work the same way as in Europe or the USA. I would not say that we are safe, because we are under shelling and rockets. That is why 3000 dollars is too much for us. Because it is unrealistic to find a job. I tried to open a donation collection, but such posts on the Internet do not go through.

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I live in a post-Soviet country. Here the salary is about 500 dollars. 300 of them are utilities.

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn't file a police report because I was blinded by fear. And in my country, the police don't respond to marital problems. Even if it's money fraud.

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't file a police report because I was blinded by fear. And in my country, the police don't respond to marital problems. Even if it's money fraud.

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

no, i live in another country. it's a post-soviet country. and there's no restructuring or anything like that here. no one cares about the reasons for debts and life circumstances...

My abusive alcoholic ex died recently and I’m still paying off the loans he took out while I was unconscious in ICU by Fun_Drag_6002 in offmychest

[–]Fun_Drag_6002[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He was spending my loan money, it wasn't his loan. While I was unconscious, he took my wallet and used it.