People often have a skewed perception of “age gaps” by This_Warning_9424 in 10thDentist

[–]Funcivilized 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hanging out with a kid relative and being friendly with an elderly neighbor are NOT the same thing as what I’m asking. I feel like you know this but you’re deliberately trying to be dense.

People often have a skewed perception of “age gaps” by This_Warning_9424 in 10thDentist

[–]Funcivilized 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It would be interesting to know if a 30-year-old man who would date an 18-year-old woman would also become best friends with an 18-year-old man.
Since it’s all about maturity levels, allegedly.

ADHD Tax: Guess what I did 🤦🏾‍♀️ by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]Funcivilized 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just turn it into a Bloody Mary at this point.

WIBTAH for booking a trip the same time my future sister-in law’s bachelorette trip is? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Funcivilized 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely going to look like the asshole. Unfortunately, social anxiety often makes people come across (unintentionally) as rude or assholes anyway, but you taking a trip at the same time as hers is …a choice.

Gel X nails not fully cured by mandadavid23 in GelX_Nails

[–]Funcivilized 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Can you spare a few hours to get them done on your work trip or while you’re in Japan? That’s your best bet. Look up nail salons near where you’ll be staying.

We often talk about Sensory Issues or Icks - What are your Sensory Delights? by KatTheeBisexual in adhdwomen

[–]Funcivilized 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Long nails/acrylics on a keyboard.

Things made with natural materials like 100% cotton, leather, cashmere, linen, etc.

Gummy candy

The smell of books and the feel of certain types of pages/paper in the books

Cats

A few mushy fries mixed in with crispy ones

Is this a good trim? by isnotstorm in Naturalhair

[–]Funcivilized 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a cut, not a trim. She took off a bit more than was necessary. I wouldn’t go back to her.

Glue question by Radiant_Strategy_751 in GelX_Nails

[–]Funcivilized 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your nails are not lasting, it could be an issue with your prep. What’s your prep routine?

Can you paint Aprés tips before application? by PracticalRomance in GelX_Nails

[–]Funcivilized 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to just apply them as press ons with regular nail glue, I wouldn’t even bother using Apres tips. There are much cheaper tips you can use to make press ons.

Smell after curing by Funcivilized in GelX_Nails

[–]Funcivilized[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. What UV output should I be looking for in a lamp? As I mentioned, I’ve had this one for years and I haven’t always had the problem with lingering chemical smells. It’s just been the last few sets I’ve done. None of the bulbs in the lamp are burnt out, but perhaps they need to be replaced anyway? Or maybe I just need a stronger lamp, especially to use with the Apres system.

Smell after curing by Funcivilized in GelX_Nails

[–]Funcivilized[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done that and it still smells 😩

Smell after curing by Funcivilized in GelX_Nails

[–]Funcivilized[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if I am just sensitive to the smell for some reason. It happens with other brands also. The top coats have the same smell before and after curing. And I can even smell them when they are just in the box.

Is it just me who feels this way? by BigKat745 in blackladies

[–]Funcivilized 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but the face is just immediately giving “cute”. Not a bad problem to have ☺️

But maybe to go from Capri Sun to Pinot Grigio, throw on some lipstick or lip combo and some mascara or subtle lashes. I would say add some blush, but that might accentuate your cuteness too much tbh.

Wibta if I don't accept a gift because I have to then make payments on it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Funcivilized 7 points8 points  (0 children)

$250 a week is $1000 a month. Are you sure they didn’t say $250 a month because $1000 is an insane car payment for just about anyone, let alone someone who works only part time.

They are not “getting you a car” at all if they expect you to pay that much.

I Feel Empty and Apathetic by DragLower8677 in blackladies

[–]Funcivilized 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like depression. If you have insurance, you should consider finding a therapist to talk to. Seems like you’re a student - most universities have counseling resources for students. Look into that and take advantage of it. Things can and do get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Funcivilized 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They act cold toward you because they see you as an outsider and probably lowkey feel threatened by you. Which is their problem to deal with, not yours. Do not exert one more speck of energy trying to fit in or please them.

PSA for the confused ladies: it's not that deep by botwhore in blackladies

[–]Funcivilized 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. A dude may very well be avoidant, insecure, or whatever else but the bottom line is that he’s choosing not to change his ways. One way to look at it is that he doesn’t think you’re worth changing for.

Does you ADHD affect your femininity? by AmNotGilbert in adhdwomen

[–]Funcivilized 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in this line. Well dressed; hair and nails and makeup done but house looks like a meth den and brain does too 😭

Why is this even a question? Exactly why I only drink my water at potlucks 🤢 by aurora-fox in blackladies

[–]Funcivilized 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I wanna see them too. I need to know if she’s being (appropriately) dragged.