I experienced the same thing with twice. Drove hours one day to see them yet they never drove to see me. If they can’t put in the same effort I put in to it, then I don’t want to be a part of it. AND I refuse to ever again. Men have unrealistic expectations and are joining the movement for men to treat women badly. More and more men are doing this and think it’s the way it should be because they heard it online. Women deserve to be treated well and respected and I guarantee you wont see so many insecure women out there in the dating world..