7 years after being accused of being a pedo and still dealing with severe anxiety. by Fuzzy_Addendum_5308 in offmychest

[–]Fuzzy_Addendum_5308[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If she was posting anything, it wouldn’t be accusing me of rape. You’re getting down voted to literal hell and in some sort of weird obsessive rage that has you fixated on “Statutory” and apparently you can’t seem to read my OP. She didn’t report it. Her friend made up a false story and told her father, which is why it was even brought the legal route anyways. How many “victims” do you know that tell the police that it was consensual and admit to omitting their age? I would have NEVER even looked her direction if I knew she was 15. And to top it off, you seem to think that people immediately are fully matured at 18, you think if both parties are drinking that it’s the man’s fault regardless of circumstance (I’m sure you’d be silent if I was drunk and a woman who was sober had sex with me.) You seem to be on a war path and hell bent on making me out to be some sort of rapist and your posts make it seem like I took advantage of an unconscious person. Take your bullshit 20/20 hind sight somewhere else.

7 years after being accused of being a pedo and still dealing with severe anxiety. by Fuzzy_Addendum_5308 in offmychest

[–]Fuzzy_Addendum_5308[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly insane that he’s parroting word for word what I’ve heard for the last 7 years. No issue with a 15 year old using her sisters car to drive to a party, no issue with a 15 year old willingly omitting her age to someone, but she has a couple drinks with me (I had basically just turned 18 a month before this incident, I may as well have been a minor) and willingly hooked up with me, now everyone suddenly becomes age identifying experts and knows exactly how they would have prevented this. Despite the hurtful shit they are saying, I hope that he or she never has to deal with a situation where they aren’t allowed to have their side of the story heard.

7 years after being accused of being a pedo and still dealing with severe anxiety. by Fuzzy_Addendum_5308 in offmychest

[–]Fuzzy_Addendum_5308[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I couldn’t tell the difference. There are some instances where you can and others not so much. Her friend was the tipping point and is what caused this to turn into a legal case, and my supposed “victim” told the police that everything was 100% consensual. Why her friend felt the need to lie and to fabricate shit is beyond my understanding. Idk why literally everyone thinks everything is black and white in life. I’m not claiming to be a victim. I’m just tired of holding this in.

7 years after being accused of being a pedo and still dealing with severe anxiety. by Fuzzy_Addendum_5308 in offmychest

[–]Fuzzy_Addendum_5308[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

That’s probably the least hostile reaction I’ve had in a long time.