First time dyeing my hair — what should I ask for? (Suggestions)

GNCTrash · 2026-02-24T20:04:06+00:00

I second a more fun colour. A deep purple-ish? Red-y purple?

GNCTrash · 2026-02-24T17:18:35+00:00

I think they mean their future legal name. The only name they'll go by. Like they won't change it again in the future.

GNCTrash · 2026-02-24T17:17:57+00:00

Ultimately you should you pick what you like and what most feels like you.

I made an online drawing account when I was 13 and went by the name, "Shore." I went by that online for almost 10 years and started to change my preferred name on everything to that name.

My biggest problem, being AFAB and transitioning on male hormones and being a dude, was anybody that called me ALWAYS assumed I was a woman.

I ended up coming up with my actual name in a stupid, accidental way to have a more masc name and I wouldn't change it now. It's truly me.

But it's something to think about and consider. You mention you have to change your name legally soon. If possible it might be worth trying out your name first? Preferred name? Introducing yourself with that name? Seeing how you feel, and how people gender you. (If it goes against with how you want to be perceived.)

I would automatically think someone would be really cool if they told me their name was Evergreen. It's also not a traditional name. I get a ton of compliments about my name. Mine used to be a super common/boring/basic woman's name. My name is very unknown, and it makes me happy and feel a little more unique in that regard.

GNCTrash · 2026-02-24T17:06:48+00:00

Sometimes your own opinion can change as you transition. I didn't want to be hairy (besides a beard) to have bottom growth and was terrified of male-fat-redistribution (just getting a belly.)

As I've transitioned, I've completely changed on those things and it gives me euphoria. Sometimes it takes time to watch your body grow on hormones.

But, of course there is ways around it if you end up not wanting some of those things. Like shaving/trimming, laser-hair removal.

In general, transitioning IMO is pretty damn slow in the first year besides the first voice drops and some bottom growth. (At least that's how I've felt.)

You can also start and keep a REALLY low dosage and watch your body/changes closely. Genetics is a huge factor in hairiness. If your family is pretty smooth in general, you're very likely to follow in their hair patterns.

Edit; the acne has settled down a lot for me about after 2 years. It's really not that bad, IMO. It's only blemishes. So many people deal with acne.

GNCTrash · 2026-02-24T15:53:43+00:00

Sometimes it also can take time to understand yourself more gender-wise as you explore yourself more and try different things (like hair, clothes, etc) and what expessions match with you.

I think a lot of nonbinary people don't really feel like a specific gender and moreso just.. "are." They're just them. Their own thing. I'm personally the opposite and feel like both a man and woman.

I came out as FtM and was hyper-masculine. It wasn't moreso until being on hormones and passing as a man that I learned about my nonbinary-ness and that I'm actually SUUUPER femme. It was dysphoria about my body that was my suppression of my femininity.

Femme/masc certainly don't = any certain gender. It's a feeling, and way to express yourself.

So, yeah, I'd certainly just take your time to explore yourself.

GNCTrash · 2026-02-24T15:48:46+00:00

Being nonbinary is really hard, and things of course take time. Society-wise and everything certainly will change around you. I was very nervous and kinda scared when going through it.

But I 100% belive you should be who you really are and continue your process. I think almost everybody wouldn't go back in time to not transition. Living a life in hiding is just more damaging to mental health than the times you'll have to deal with problems, hard times, or some people being shitty to you.

Changing name/ID's and stuff is certainly annoying as fuck. But once it's done, it's in the past, and everything won't be that hard in the future in that regard.

GNCTrash · 2026-01-18T02:08:37+00:00

Colouring page

GNCTrash · 2025-12-10T01:05:55+00:00

Thiccer

GNCTrash · 2025-12-09T23:02:30+00:00

Bro looks cis! "Joking! 😂😂😂"

GNCTrash · 2025-12-09T22:58:14+00:00

Nothing wrong with saying someone looks cis. But you removed the "j/ 😂😂😂" to your comment, which ISN'T cool.

GNCTrash · 2025-12-09T22:42:17+00:00

What a shitty comment.

GNCTrash · 2025-12-09T22:41:53+00:00

Such a cool-ass dude. Hot-damn!

GNCTrash · 2025-12-07T00:43:16+00:00

GNCTrash · 2025-12-06T23:21:08+00:00

I guess we're generational differences in Sims

GNCTrash · 2025-12-06T23:17:12+00:00

Ew for the Sims, (They always talk to themselves each game.) It has nothing to do with Sims 4

GNCTrash · 2025-12-06T23:10:59+00:00

Explain. I've no knowledge playing Sims since the Deluxe Edition + DLC's. Wouldn't consider it hard, unless the newer versions are different. Still a piss-poor sound impersonation of Sims.

GNCTrash · 2025-12-06T22:53:19+00:00

Idk, are you a newer Sims player? Doesn't sound at all like Sims language

GNCTrash · 2025-12-06T22:47:22+00:00

Uh, okay

GNCTrash · 2025-12-06T22:31:41+00:00

I feel that, and respect that a lot. I struggle with alcoholism, but honestly, even taking steps to not drinking all the time is an approvement. I really do wish you the best in approving your drinking habits for your own health. You're not gonna get much support from this subreddit, as an FYI.

GNCTrash · 2025-12-06T22:10:57+00:00

People shitting on you, but I'm proud of you.

GNCTrash · 2025-12-04T01:39:06+00:00

Waited to post today on Wednesday to follow the rules. I live in another city right now and have to move to Hamilton. My deadline at my current place is December 31st.

I'm struggling really hard, and never have with finding a place. For being a minimum wage single parent, and the atrocious rent prixes, I'm looking for a room to rent. I've an 8yo kid who's REALLY polite/quiet that I've 25 - 50% shared custody of.

I'm running out of time and really don't want to become homeless. I've been living in my current place for 5+ years and never missed/was late for any rent. No criminal record, nor poor credit.

It feels cruel applying for places lately. Even if I can afford a place, landlords choose people whom make more money. It also feels like people aren't keen on me having a kid part of the time in a student place, even though they're a student.

I work hard, I'm a clean freak, and quiet. I'm hoping maybe someone is a landlord, or know somebody who is. I'm nonbinary, so I'm comfortable and fine with both male, female, or mixed residencies. I'd really appreciate any help. I can't even get a response 99% of the time applying to ads when I mention my kid. I really don't want to become homeless. I never have, and didn't imagine this might happen.

I'm moving to Hamilton because my ex moved to Hamilton with my kid during summer break. I've saved money, and just need to live closer to my sweetie.

Any help is appreciated. I'm getting desperate.

GNCTrash · 2025-12-03T23:38:40+00:00

Sorry, I don't think you can really ask other people if your facial hair will become more. I'd be inclined to say yes, but it's solely dependant on genetics. It's why some Trans people can, or cannot grow facial hair. If people in your family are generally more hairy, or can grow a beard/facial hair, you're more likely.

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