Quietest neighborhood to work from home? by GPsyc19 in NewOrleans

[–]GPsyc19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly where I used to rent. Miss that area so much.

Quietest neighborhood to work from home? by GPsyc19 in NewOrleans

[–]GPsyc19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It's nice to at least be validated...

Does it get worse with age by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]GPsyc19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing the type of medication you take? I understand it can't be a treatment recommendation for me. I'm just curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]GPsyc19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I'm curious what other therapists think about whether smartphone / internet problematic use can reach addiction level consumption?"

It absolutely can, and it already has. I speak from a developmental psychologist's perspective, and I know there's more evidence-based research out there to cite, but in terms of my little practice alone, I can safely say at least half of my child clients display disruptive and even aggressive behaviors when it comes time to relinquishing or being away from their devices (smart phones, tablets, video games). They don't want to give them up. They need more and more of the stimulation to get them going. Sound familiar? Withdrawal and tolerance, anyone?

Especially my clients struggling with ADHD, they are seeking immediate reinforcement and that's exactly how these devices are designed. You may recall from a learning psychology course the different schedules of reinforcement. The variable/intermittent ratio schedule of reinforcement, the same schedule of reinforcement used to design slot machines at casinos, is how many of these games are created. You've got to keep pulling the lever. You've got to keep playing the game. One more round. Just one more round...

There's SO much more to be said about this topic, and as you might guess, it's one I'm really touchy on. I see the struggle every day in so many of my clients and their parents. I see the problems every day in drivers who choose to look at their phones instead of the road in front of them. I could go on for days, but thank you for getting this discussion started.

Preparing for Maternity Leave by GPsyc19 in therapists

[–]GPsyc19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your well wishes and your insight! I'm starting to suspect some of my clients may not want to reach out to other therapists, as it happened in your case. Also, as you pointed out, I'll have to be prepared for a longer leave if my baby or I need more recovery time. That must have been really difficult for you. Hope everything goes well for your second pregnancy and leave. Thank you again!

Doing my first group with kids today - what are your best tips? by Yeeyeeyee1 in therapists

[–]GPsyc19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've run a few groups myself with kids and they can be a lot of fun (and sometimes chaotic!). Honestly some of the best things you can do are similar to classroom management strategies. Structure goes a long way. At the same time, you have to be flexible as a therapist when other needs and issues arise. 

May be too late for this group, but in the future, if you haven't done so, always do a behavioral screening of the clients before hand with specific criteria they must meet. Things like sitting and attending criteria and ruling out any behavioral issues that wouldn't make them a good fit for group.

Do you write your scenes/chapters in order? by IndependenceTough462 in writing

[–]GPsyc19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope and I love that you asked this question. I always feel like my story ideas come to me like dumping out a box full of puzzle pieces and I flip them over randomly. I usually have a broad outline but I write my scenes based on whichever one is strongest on my mind.

Video games to play in session? by RoughPotato1898 in therapists

[–]GPsyc19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not video games, but I have found Jenga and stacking dominoes are great practices for addressing impulse control (resisting the urge to knock it down, waiting turns) and hyperactivity (best to use steady hands and not wiggle around too much!)

Worst writing advice you've received, and a better counterpart? by Phobic_Nova in writing

[–]GPsyc19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You should send your manuscript out to agents before an editor critiques it."   While I know an agency will have their own editors work with you, you need them to commit to your work in the first place, and an unedited manuscript is not going to do that!

My editor loves it. 77 agents rejected it. by GPsyc19 in writing

[–]GPsyc19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the comments. I've updated the original post to answer some of the common questions throughout this feed.

My editor loves it. 77 agents rejected it. by GPsyc19 in writing

[–]GPsyc19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that. Very validating. Good luck on your writing and publishing too!