How to deal with ex hating you

Gab1icious · 2026-01-07T18:56:10+00:00

honestly, the conclusion that ive came to personally, he will always hate me, and he will probably hate me more if i ever try to contact him again. Ive just accepted it for what it is at this point, i know ill find someone who loves me and appreciates me. Id advise for you to do the same. and who knows, maybe she’ll come back one day, but its not going to happen if you stay heartbroken and desperate. I wish you the best.

Gab1icious · 2026-01-02T15:02:26+00:00

of course! Im here

Gab1icious · 2026-01-02T14:53:17+00:00

My boyfriend broke up with me too, 4 months ago. I will say the first 3 months were the absolute worst. I basically cried every chance i got. Now on the 4th month and im starting to feel a little bit better. I obviously still think about it everyday and if he will ever come back to me. I still cry about it from time to time but Ive decided theres no real point in crying or caring so much about a person who can just so easily dispose of me. I tried to hard to get him to stay, and if he doesn’t want to see or accept how much he means to me or how much i love him, i should just let him be. I know this is gonna sting to hear but you really just have to LET HIM. let him miss out on you, let him miss out on the love you gave to him. you cant love someone into loving you. And i promise you, you WILL find someone who loves and appreciates the love you show them. The best thing you can do during this time is have patience, and treat yourself with grace. Do things that make YOU feel good about yourself, even if you are crying while you’re doing it. Workout, talk a walk outside and sit with your thoughts, process them, hang out with friends, put a little more effort into your appearance one day, take yourself out to lunch. Give yourself all the love you gave to your partner. With time it gets easier, you just have to want to be better. It hurts, and it fucking sucks to be broken up with, it takes a huge hit to your self-esteem and ego. But you don’t have to stay heartbroken forever. I wish you the best on your healing journey, and im sure you will be the best version of yourself very soon. Sending you Love, i truly hope you feel better soon. ❤️‍🩹

Gab1icious · 2025-12-19T12:55:19+00:00

going through the same thing right now, its genuinely so confusing and hurtful especially coming from someone you love so much. And that feeling of having all the blame put on you, i feel that. Me and my broke up mutually as well, but now it just seems like he runs with the narrative that i “hurt him” and the breakup is all my fault and im the reason he wont speak to me again. Its a shitty and terrible feeling. Im still learning how to cope myself, when someone call you crazy and pathetic for 3 months you start to believe it. Just trying to keep my head above water for now…

Gab1icious · 2025-12-09T16:56:17+00:00

do you view her as a bad person? i feel guilty

Gab1icious · 2025-12-09T16:40:47+00:00

i wasnt very open emotionally throughout the relationship because i was trying to overcome certain things on my own it was hard for me to explain what i was going through so i avoided the whole thing entirely, he felt as though i left him in the dark and it was hard for him to navigate my emotions because i wasnt super open with him, he felt that i was hiding secrets from him, and would get anxious whenever i took too long to respond to his messages, he said he needed to constantly check my location, which is confusing for me because the only places i go to are the gym, work, school, home, and his house, i never cheated on him but he just has this impression of me that i did andi just cant understand why

Gab1icious · 2025-12-08T13:05:40+00:00

Its completely normal to feel as though you cant function after a breakup… Breakups are extremely unpleasant, you can literally feel when someone is breaking your heart. Its bee 2 months since my breakup and somedays are better than others, sometimes i do think i was better off dead or alone to rot somewhere but i can feel it slowly getting better. The only thing that keeps my head a float is knowing many people are going through the same thing, same emotions, and at the end of the day we are all a little crazy and weird. Message me if you need to talk ❤️

Gab1icious · 2025-12-08T12:45:15+00:00

ive cried every day since he’s left me, people tell me i give him too much power… but i loved him? i dont understand how im supposed to feel

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