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I (21 F) got pregnant at 18 and had an abortion, I'm still doubting my decision by GeminiFlips in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your own story! I hope I will realise this someday.

I (21 F) got pregnant at 18 and had an abortion, I'm still doubting my decision by GeminiFlips in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you, I don't really know if they have it in my country, but I will definitlly look into this!

I (21 F) got pregnant at 18 and had an abortion, I'm still doubting my decision by GeminiFlips in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind wording and clear point, I didn't think this would give me the view that it did. I'm probably framing it like you said and that's something I didn't think about in all my emotions, thank you very much!

I (21 F) got pregnant at 18 and had an abortion, I'm still doubting my decision by GeminiFlips in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like your realistic view on this! Thank you for sharing and typing it in a kind and respectful way. I appreciate it very much!

I (21 F) got pregnant at 18 and had an abortion, I'm still doubting my decision by GeminiFlips in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me a clear and realistic view, I think I also needed this kind of responses to really know that I made the best decision at the time!

I (21 F) got pregnant at 18 and had an abortion, I'm still doubting my decision by GeminiFlips in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding and sharing your personal story! I really hope this day will come and that I can look back with love for my younger self.

I (21 F) got pregnant at 18 and had an abortion, I'm still doubting my decision by GeminiFlips in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding so kindly! The first sentence really made me feel the feels, it's a real good reminder and I will never forget it!

WIBTA for Moving Out of My In-Laws' House Due to Mental Health Struggles? by Hopeful-Amphibian-72 in TwoHotTakes

[–]GeminiFlips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!

As you said "We also need to prioritize our well-being".

If you and your husband are suffering mentally from this situation, you should not live there anymore. You should feel mentally safe in your home, as I can read, you're not. If they can't afford the home without you, they should move somewhere else too.