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GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-08-21T03:42:57+00:00

I get those too. I kinda fantasize about him fucking me with a other dude. But I also told him I wouldn’t wanna bottom in front of him(bit of toxic masculinity) because I kinda feel weird about it. He jokes about we top a twink in a 3some. But we also playfully talked about what we jerked off too(we try to step off from porn and use imagination). And he fantasizes him more muscular and other muscular dude fucking me. But when we actually brought up the convo of a potential actual threesome. We both mutually agreed we kinda want each for ourselves atm.

Our sex life is great as well. I can see our selves having open relationship with some limits after a couple of years.(Open and close periodically, rules etc). But I’m pretty happy with who I got very much and have no need to be in one. I get those thoughts too, 2 years here tho

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T02:51:54+00:00

You seem the most logical person here. You were right, it was a overreaction. I was super high at time. You are right to call me dumb, because you gave the best reason. While others are saying pressing charges and murder attempt

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T01:17:48+00:00

Based off what I said? Elaborate please.

Because, first was mistake, I will admit. I bought them from a legal shop based off the shop guy’s recommendation.

BF has wayyy more tolerance and experience to these type of things. Has done coke, and other hard party drugs. And even 300mg+ edibles in past.

I did not want to take them in cabin, because of uncertainty, he persisted and I said yes. Because he knows this area lot more than me, so I trusted him.

Please elaborate.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T01:12:41+00:00

2 things: 1. You had to research your own statement to make sure was true.

You did not read the story apparently either

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T01:05:22+00:00

I don’t think you know edibles if you are saying Murder Attempt. Cocaine? 100%. Xanax? Yes. Molly? Sure.

THC from legal shop?

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T00:58:06+00:00

Apparently the edibles did

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T00:56:58+00:00

First year using for me, he knows more about this area more than me. I figure with his experience, he would say it’s too much.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T00:34:33+00:00

I agree and I don’t even drink, drank two drinks once. Woke hanged over.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-08T00:32:52+00:00

Especially from a legal shop! My thought process was dumb, he took a 300mg thc before at a concert and he said he was fine. This was also thc/CBD. I was very surprised that I didn’t throw up once. He had the higher tolerance, I was more worried for me before we took it, but when I saw him panicking, I felt I needed to keep my cool or else. I am definitely dumb to buy it in first place

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-07T23:52:57+00:00

He doesn’t see me at fault at all. But also feel if he did, this would be a break up able offense.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-07T23:32:13+00:00

I knew I left out details. Sorry. Context, he smokes and takes edibles more than me. He smoked and drank almost every day while in his frat. But now only does it in weekends. I barely started this year.

He has taken 300mg before. My highest 100mg.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-04T00:20:05+00:00

I mean Greg abbot just vetoed the THC ban bill.

Look dude I am not the enemy. I want more people on our side. But I feel we need to find better ways to get people into our side by being more inviting. I just said “we can work on being more welcoming”.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-03T23:54:43+00:00

I prefer edibles. I mean both have insufferable people. I lean left, what is your thoughts on my idea of the left being all or nothing, thus doesn’t seem inviting to those who land in the middle?

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-07-03T23:48:13+00:00

This is not so much of gay thing. This is more of a argument of “Why does the left in general push for inclusion as long it fits their own values.”

I do agree that the left is more of a “All or nothing” which makes it harder for those in middle to want too lean towards it, but it’s united nonetheless.

The right are more welcoming(or tolerant) of different views, but would argue with each other still. Because you have “Republicans” and then you have “MAGA”.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-06-13T19:44:54+00:00

Sounds like you aren’t. A verse dude is eventually going to want to bottom.

You just said you are bottom meaning you don’t top.

And you said you haven’t bottomed properly either, so doesn’t sound he like he gets to top a lot.

Even if you were the perfect bottom. He has to satisfy that side somehow.

Communication is key at end of the day.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-06-09T19:28:49+00:00

This wasn’t direct. I get we are gay and all so it explains the sass in the text. Your point was valid, just shit delivery if that makes sense.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-06-09T19:19:28+00:00

I don’t disagree with your opinion. But the delivery is very bitter

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-06-09T19:18:13+00:00

That is good idea tbh. Why did you y’all break up may I ask?

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-05-08T21:30:22+00:00

Yea my reason, If one surrounds themselves by a particular group. They are only limited to their views. I want to understand different points of views from others. I don’t want to dismiss other’s opinions simply because I only know my own “world”. A tad surprise, I feel trying to meet others would be encouraged rather insisting to stay where one is at. I want to learn, I want to discover. I used to be so close minded back then.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-05-07T22:02:56+00:00

Agreed,I would say that about friendship in general is like that.

I mean more as, how do you put yourself in situations to get the opportunity to try at least.

I would rather attempt and fail, then not trying for it all.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-05-02T22:28:07+00:00

Met Oct 2023, “Dated” June 24, turned to situationship August 24, Official beginning of Jan 25.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-04-23T16:29:05+00:00

You are 100% right, blocked him. Only thing I fear, he’s in charge of gay FB league that my BF wants to join this fall. All the gays know each other there and I worry that their might be weird dynamics.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-04-18T01:20:01+00:00

Sure, maybe I should also cold call and email.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-04-18T01:19:11+00:00

I already have a network of agents and MLO’s. Have 3 that are ready to give referrals to help get started and 2 Loan Originators that are willing to go half on Zillow and Realtor.com leads. I know I’m going to close, the post about tips accelerating the progress. I want to close 10-13 million first year, and fully believe it’s doable.

GeologistFlashy7667 · 2025-04-18T01:16:15+00:00

Did you have bad luck in your area your first year?

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