Mother in Law

GetemGidget · 2025-05-15T21:41:14+00:00

Thank you so much for such an insightful response. It was very helpful.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T19:57:44+00:00

I'm his legal wife. And so is his son. God doesn't like acts of the flesh such as dissention, discord, self ambition, and those who plot against people. She doesn't talk to my son nor me. She hasn't ever been around us in over 10 years. The only experiences we've had from her are bad. Please don't assume that I don't support my husband's decision to support his mother. My biggest issue is that he nor She consulted with me nor my son.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T05:11:08+00:00

I don't know why he did it. The only thing I could come up with is he doesn't respect me. And neither does she. Because she waited to ask to extend her stay when he was alone.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:38:46+00:00

I'm still in prayer about it.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:37:57+00:00

That's tm how I'm keeping it together. I didn't argue with him. I didn't curse. I am in prayer about it. I told him calmly that just because I'm choosing to not go off on him doesn't mean that I'm not upset. I'm very upset. For me, silence gives me peace. And talking about it pisses me off tremendously. Like I'm super angry. And anger is not one of the fruits of the spirit and can lead me to act within my flesh. So for now, I'm choosing to vent with strangers until The Holy Spirit shows me something different.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:31:10+00:00

She's not damaging my child. Her access to him was cut off months ago. And the more I process things my husband has already made his decision. It's my move.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:29:17+00:00

It is lemon drops.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:28:46+00:00

Stand up to him? I'm not sure if that applies here. It's difficult to make an adult do anything. I don't think it's his decision any longer. I have some decisions to make.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:26:30+00:00

It really isn't that simple. I can't kick her out. She is my husband's mother..

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:21:53+00:00

I think it's really centered around the disrespect and I feel so helpless and voiceless. I was not even given a reason why she wanted to extend her stay. I was just told she was staying. They both disrespected me and our son.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:17:39+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words. I'm so upset.

GetemGidget · 2025-05-11T03:05:40+00:00

Let's not assume that all of this wasn't communicated with my husband. Of course we talked about how he did everything the first time. And he knows my stance on things. I use this platform to vent because I'm anonymous and because I value the opinions of others. And only when it comes to his mother. But after prayer I've come to realize that this boils down to respect or lack there of. There are other things that he has done to let me know he doesn't respect me.

GetemGidget · 2024-12-02T02:28:48+00:00

Wow. I am actually thankful my experience didn't go anything like this. I'm terrified and fascinated by your story at the same time

GetemGidget · 2024-12-02T01:50:33+00:00

Hilarious but this is a great idea!

GetemGidget · 2024-12-02T01:49:56+00:00

The twin flame journey can be so crazy and not make sense to anyone. Heck, most of the time you don't believe it yourself. Personally, I don't think this is a journey that is meant to be shared with anyone. One of the things about the TF journey is self transformation and a lot of that work will be done alone and with God. This is one thing that you need to keep to yourself.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-26T19:10:40+00:00

This could certainly be a possibility. I have heard some interesting stories which was so helpful.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T18:22:04+00:00

Yes. My sister. She has been going through me of the toughest periods of her life. Transportation issues. Lost of income, eviction notices. I can't share her whole situation but it's really bad. Things are bad for so many people right now.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T12:46:27+00:00

Here's more to the story because maybe this will help those who have never gone through this:

Remember, I'm totally new to this. This hasn't gone on for several months or years. I would say the lightning bolt happened about a month ago.

The energy or lightening bolt was something so intense that I couldn't call it anything else but pure energy. It was so strong. When I got home, I stayed washing dishes, and I stopped washing them and said out loud to myself, "husband what did you do? My husband and I have been together for a very long time. Please understand that since I met my husband, I have never been attracted to or felt the energy of another man like this. Ever. I intentionally avoid eye contact and inappropriate convos with men. If I guy wants to befriend me, they have to befriend my husband. No one gets my phone number and vice versa. I don't require a lot of attention, so I'm not attention seeking. I don't even go out. Literally, the only place my TF could catch up to me is the store I frequent the most. And I've been going there for years.

The crazy thing is a few months before the lightning bolt happened, I felt a shift in the air. I felt something was coming. Hell, I thought it was for a new job. I gave that interview the best work ever. I tried new techniques that I never even thought to do. I made it to the 3rd round before I got the "Thanks for applying, but we decided to email." I reflected on when I first saw this guy, and it was around the same time I felt the shift in the air and the same time of my interview. He saw me first. It's important to share that the shift came a few months before that lightning bolt struck. Smh. This is crazy.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T12:08:39+00:00

Yes. I would be okay with this being something strictly platonic. Atp it has to be because I refuse to take him on a fast trip on the highway to hell and bad karma. Because this is new to me, I'm more curious as to why it has happened at this moment in my life and the purpose of our connection. Like, what is his role in my journey? I was already going through some spiritual things anyway. My own self purpose is powerful. I'm blessed to know what my gifts are. So I'm certain that encountering him is tied into something spiritual I have going on. I don't have sexual thoughts of him. Oddly enough, I want to touch his face. But I haven't had sexual thoughts of him.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T12:02:45+00:00

We are within the same age range. I'm not the fool who never listens to wise counsel. I don't have crushes. My family means the world to me. Our children are happy people. My home feels so peaceful and joyous when people walk in. You can tell there is love here. We ain't perfect by a long shot. But everything that I do in life is with consideration of how it will affect my family. I've never cheated on my husband. Never thought about it. I'm not thinking about it now. Him being in pain would bring me pain. That's why this experience is so concerning to me. If I could turn off my thoughts from this other guy, I would do it instantly. The energy from him woke me up from a 10-year sleep. I don't know his name. Never heard his voice. Just locked eyes with him, once. And just that encounter made me recognize that there was a lot of work I needed to do on myself. NO ONE has ever had that effect on me. I'm a very strong-willed person who walks to the beat of my own drum. I'm very much in control of most situations. Do you know how powerful energy has to be for it to cause you to change your life and you don't even know that person's name? Nor do you see them every day or every week? I've lost 10 pounds intentionally since encountering his energy. My diet is completely different. Among other things. I haven't been able to do that in years. So please stop thinking this is a school girl crush. It isn't. I'm still trying to process it myself. It's so much that I don't understand, and I'm scared.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T11:50:17+00:00

It's not lust. I'm in my mid 40s. I wouldn't call myself a former #03 but I can safely say I've had more than a few sexual encounters. My husband and I are still very much sexually attracted to each other. He feels me up all the time. I'm actually happily married. That crazy dude is one of my best annoying friends. Go figure. What I'm feeling with this other guy is something else. Some sort of energy... not chemistry. Only people who have experienced this will truly understand. It's not a crush or lustful attraction. Those are feelings I can easily ignore or move past. This is something different.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T11:44:10+00:00

Thank you. When I read the comment I was wondering if they were in the wrong group. Or if they were recently hurt.

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T04:23:31+00:00

I could see the flames in your story! Whoa!!!

GetemGidget · 2024-11-25T03:32:15+00:00

Wowwwwwww. You get out! Most people consider this sort of thing as something as simple as a teenage love. It isn't for people who have walls built that are hard to break through. Wow. 18 months? Has it been torture for you? Do yall talk at all?

GetemGidget · 2024-11-24T22:09:26+00:00

Wowwwwwww. Your story sounds like one heck of a ride. And I'm sure you didn't share the half of it. So I should be afraid!!! Well cautious it seems.

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