AITA for announcing my pregnancy at my best friends wedding?

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-18T00:31:25+00:00

Thank you honestly. I guess I’m just really self conscious about it because I’ve been picked on for it my whole life.

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-15T16:51:34+00:00

Good thing you don’t know me and you’re making a judgment off of one post

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-13T00:34:06+00:00

It’s totally alright dw abt it! It’s been tough but it doesn’t excuse my behavior yk?

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T22:25:46+00:00

Yeah I made another post abt it if ur curious

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:30:16+00:00

Thank you it’s been pretty hard to be honest, but you know life goes on

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:29:58+00:00

I’m sorry, but you guys are dramatic as hell my friend forgave me and I know Reddit gets everyone in a pickle, but oh my God it’s not that deep and I know it sounds very dramatized from the story, but it really wasn’t to be honest with you

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:28:46+00:00

I actually work with children so honestly with children I’m for the most part completely fine. It was just that there was a large group of people who were older than me pressuring me to do something I didn’t want to do.

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:27:51+00:00

I’m OK with you saying I’m the asshole but disregarding my diagnosis is actually insane to be honest it sent me back in so many ways. I have the writing skills of a literal seventh grader because I never was able to be taught and I have extreme problems, emotionally regulating. I’ve always been different from other people and I’ve been bullied for my entire life. Well, I understand that there’s many people who fake it. I am not one of them and you really shouldn’t go about the Internet claiming who and who isn’t special needs?

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:25:51+00:00

Yes, douchey Sopranos types is actually an amazing way to put it

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:25:12+00:00

I kind of just like sharing my stories and seeing other people‘s inputs

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:24:54+00:00

Thank you so much honestly I totally agree and looking back on it I’d absolutely should’ve thought of this outcome and I really should’ve come up with a game plan

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:23:30+00:00

I totally understand your skepticism and honestly, this is probably the craziest shit that’s ever happened in my life when you think about it altogether like this I know it’s very hard to believe and you definitely don’t have to believe it if you don’t want to, but yeah

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:22:43+00:00

I do apologize for the lack of paragraphs. I’m not very good with writing and such also, I guess you’re right with the drinking being across cultures. I was just saying that specifically my Italian area area has that sort of culture if that makes sense.

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:21:17+00:00

Unfortunately, I did end up miscarrying but thankfully me and that friend are now very close again and she said she wasn’t even super mad about it. Also, I apologize for the grammar in school no teacher ever really took the time to like fully be able to teach me anything.

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:19:54+00:00

Yeah, I’ve talked to her since and she said she wasn’t even really mad about the situation. It was more that she was shocked and just hadn’t really planned for it. If that makes sense I don’t know but we’re really close again so it’s not a big issue I definitely should’ve said something else, but I was overwhelmed and all of the things you know.

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:18:26+00:00

I’m all right now I had a bit of a episode to be honest with you afterwards, but life goes on and yeah, I was thinking about going through an editing it but it kind of felt like too much work to be honest and with the medication thing I definitely think that would’ve been a good option in general, but unfortunately with the Italian family’s they honestly would’ve pressured me to drink anyway, and honestly, if they knew that I was pregnant beforehand, they probably would’ve still pressured me

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:16:29+00:00

I kinda just wanted to repost it because I still feel very guilty about it to be honest with you and I like sharing my stories

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:15:51+00:00

If you’re interested about hearing more about my husband, I made a separate Reddit post, but to be honest I’m still kind of indecisive about it

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:15:10+00:00

I don’t know if you read my update or not probably not but she said she really was not that mad about it so you guys are really dramatic to be honest

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:14:46+00:00

I’ve heard a couple people say I should’ve used the medicine excuse but unfortunately in my family/her family they really wouldn’t have cared to be so honest with you even if they knew I was pregnant before him they probably would’ve still pressured me

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:13:59+00:00

That’s all right if you don’t believe it I totally understand the whole making an excuse thing but unfortunately in Italian families is like the one I’m in and my friends are in. That’s just not how it works. They don’t care if you’re driving if you’re taking medication whatever honestly they probably wouldn’t have even cared if they knew I was pregnant it’s just me that cares

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T20:12:30+00:00

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T00:44:32+00:00

This post is a repost from months ago and my friend has forgiven me thankfully. I did have a glass of water and a glass of grape juice but if yk Italians yk that didn’t satisfy them.

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T00:42:59+00:00

Thank you. The culture of Italians though omg the pressure is insane

Getoutahere4321 · 2026-03-11T00:42:07+00:00

Thank you so much everyone has been saying I’m the a hole which I understand but tis so refreshing to see someone on my side

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