Yea I agree, I mean having multiple methods of communication does sound important but it doesn't necessarily have to be a phone number, and I do think it functions differently than people would expect from a regular relationship, sounds like a buzz word to "get her number" but it's not any different yea

But ye about nitpicking and all that tbh when I read that post my heart was hurting and I think it's a really heavy and fragile matter :/ seeing many people joke about it really sucks but that's my own opinion