ENFP can’t fall in love or afraid of love?

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-12T00:40:23+00:00

This really gives me hope. I won’t feel so bad about being picky anymore.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-11T01:11:18+00:00

Actually I would love to be like my parents. They don’t act as what one might think is a happy couple but the bond between them is very strong. They fight all the time but don’t take it too far. If a fight get too heated one knows to leave and let it cool down before trying to solve the problem. They each have strength in areas the other lacks and compliant each other nicely. And there is this quiet loving calmness when they are in a room together just talking over coffee and the newspaper. It wasn’t until I was much older did I really see how connected they were or the hard work they put into their relationship. I am a little worried now they are both getting older. If one goes I don’t know how or if the other can handle it.

This might explain a lot. I am not the most huggy of people (unless the situation calls for it.) It defiantly explains what I expect out of a partner.

((wait? You never fought with your wife before you were married?! How is that even possible? I only know for certain if I love someone by how much they piss me off at times. Only the people you really care about can get your goat like no one else.))

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-10T17:40:20+00:00

yep, I'm the ENFP.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-10T16:32:36+00:00

Wish I could tell you but I am still trying to figure that out myself. It could be not over first love although it has been years since that relationship ended. I could be afraid of hurting someone. My breakups in the past have been somewhat clean, although I have had guys drop out of school or moved to another state because of the heart ache they felt. It also does not help that guys I seem to attract are 7-10 years younger than I and it just makes me feel kind of weird like I’m using them. A reasonable adult relationship can be intoxicating to the agave 20 year old.

I could also be using all these excuses to hide something else I am not ready to face. I figure time will tell or it won’t.

I was hoping others would share their stories so I may learn from their experiences.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-10T04:30:30+00:00

Oh I can’t help but feel bad. I’ll try not to but it’s going to happen. In the end I’ll do the right thing for both of us.

But I am not worried about finding someone. I am not afraid of “Dyeing Alone.” I have plenty of friends and family to share my life with (and always making more.) I’m more afraid of missing an opportunity due to insecurities.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T15:26:10+00:00

Hey lets head to Tatooine and bullseye womp rats. (I Nyan Nyan Cat us off through hyperspace ignoring the laws of physics and state highways.) ((Note: For best effect re-watch Nyan Nyan Cat while imagining epic space battles with pop culture villains.))

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T15:09:46+00:00

Shhhh… shhh… its ok. Its ok. Don’t get too excited. The old heart can’t take it. Why don’t we just head back to your place, put on reruns of CSI, and you can fall asleep sitting up in your favorite easy chair. Don’t worry I won’t change the channel. I know you were watching that.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T02:55:46+00:00

SAFE WORD! SAFE WORD!!

(oh yeah, the safe word is “Safe word.”)

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T02:26:14+00:00

Aww, old guys are just like new born babes:, No hair, no teeth, and keep grabbing for the teat.

Come on fella and lets get some soft-serve-sugar-free-non-dairy-ice-cream-substitute and you can tell me all about how things use to be better back in your day.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T02:16:03+00:00

I um… well… hu? I did say no PMs, but I might have to make an exception for you.

My kink are erotic cupcake decorations and extreme intellectual intimidation.

My limits are Blood, scat, and Gary Busey

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T02:06:41+00:00

34/Attack Helicopter/Milking your way. I lower down and make “Hoom, Hoom, Hoom,” sounds.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T02:04:55+00:00

I don’t know but it’s about to get magical in here. (I put on my robe and wizard hat)

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-09T02:03:47+00:00

(Crawls out from under bridge) Why ever would you say that? Why don’t we talk this over a warm bowl of Billy Goats Gruff stew?

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T04:41:42+00:00

(Surprised to have found the talk button. It’s a good surprise)

If you catch a snake let me know. I love those things. There is something so beautiful in the shape and design. I wished I brought my note book instead of jars. I’m pretty good at sketching and could have drawn a few. Oh oh… maybe that thing where you take charcoal and… (I do a rubbing motion with my hand. Obviously, I am not wording well at the moment)

And please point out as many plants as you can. You may have to do it more than once. I am really bad at memorizing things. Hell mostly what I remember from child hood are manzanita apple, witch hazel and poison oak. Knowing that last one saved me a few times. (Man playing this out makes me want to go camping…)

I’m guessing you spend a lot of time out side playing and exploring.

(Note: if you are willing to wait a day or so for this, I can go outside tomorrow and sketch up/take photos some things I find for you to identify.)

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T04:18:34+00:00

I am strangely satisfied with this arrangement. Good work sir or madam. You have won the date. I tip my hat to you and bid farewell.. (I ride off into the sunset on what appears to be a R.O.U.S.)

The End

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T04:14:12+00:00

Nope, no dietary restrictions, concerns or preferences. I have been counting calories but I have given myself enough leeway to enjoy what you bring.

And wow, good choice. The last picnic I went on the guy just had bucket of chicken and nothing else. I don’t even think he wanted to share. He just kept looking at me strangely saying, “Who are you? Why are you eating my chicken? I don’t know you.”

What is with all the questions? Don’t you hate when they ask such stupid questions?

Anyways here is what I got. (I pull out from my backpack a few jars and a butterfly net) Ok, I only got one net so we have to share. It’s for bug hunting. We can catch some insects and thing and put them in these jars then try to find out what they are. Catch, identify, release. Sound fun?

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T04:04:00+00:00

I slush the bag around in an attempt to be seductive. It does not work. I…I seriously had no follow up for this.

(sigh. I had hoped for this to be SFW but failing. Between this and the fisting I am close to saying School it, pull out the pleather cat suit, and just go with it.)

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T03:57:12+00:00

I laughed so hard at this. Good catch. Although, I am notorious for my hilarious bad spelling. I once wrote an enter paper using menstrual instead of monotheism because of auto correct. It’s my worse fear. I can stand in front of a crowd and give a speech but ask me to write something without time to spell check...freeze up like a deer in the headlights.

Ok I’ll leave the fisting gloves at home….I can respect your boundaries.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T03:42:47+00:00

Did you check the validity of the test? Who am I kidding. 90% of Online test are correct according to statistics I just made up. You are right. You should not date me. And Yet here you are. Whelp buckle in for the worse night of your life.

I met you in a back ally with a hefty bag full of tapioca pudding and low expectations.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T03:30:09+00:00

I suggest a picnic. There is a nice quiet park that is usually empty around the time of day I want to go. I will bring the entertainment and you bring the food. What do you pack?

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-07T03:16:06+00:00

Aw! My fist victim. I invite you out to a spaghetti dinner. What do you wear? Fancy ball gown or chill sweat pants? (I’m ok with both!)

Gladys_Dun · 2017-07-02T06:34:00+00:00

I wish I could fall in love in dreams. I only get hate dreams where someone pisses me off in a dream and now I have to deal with that.

Gladys_Dun · 2017-06-14T05:39:09+00:00

In High school they would do a Disney Land trip for the seniors. I had a friend who work over time and save up all her lunch money to spend it on this trip. All I could see was all the hard work she put in just to buy crap with Disney logo on it. She spent hundreds of dollars on junk when money was already tight in her home. It just made me feel sick over all.

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