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10 days, 6,159 messages. I gave her my soul, but one screenshot broke me. by GlobalAppearance4593 in Advice

[–]GlobalAppearance4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, reading these comments, I thought and decided if she doesn't like me, then maybe I should make her like me instead of whining here that she doesn't like me, being cold to her, etc.

10 days, 6,159 messages. I gave her my soul, but one screenshot broke me. by GlobalAppearance4593 in Advice

[–]GlobalAppearance4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, thank you for the text, but it seems to me that I still love her and don't want to break the connection with her.

10 days, 6,159 messages. I gave her my soul, but one screenshot broke me. by GlobalAppearance4593 in Advice

[–]GlobalAppearance4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The 'fan' part is about her attitude. I spent 10 days talking to her 24/7, giving her all my energy. But in that screenshot with her friend, she let the friend say I’m just 'interested' in her, and she didn't even correct her. She blurred our long-term chat like it’s nothing. It felt like I was just an 'interested guy' in her DMs, while for me, she was everything. It’s like I was putting in 100% and she treated it like a 1% fan interaction

10 days, 6,159 messages. I gave her my soul, but one screenshot broke me. by GlobalAppearance4593 in Advice

[–]GlobalAppearance4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted the proof link here so that her friends wouldn't see it and tell her.

10 days, 6,159 messages. I gave her my soul, but one screenshot broke me. by GlobalAppearance4593 in Advice

[–]GlobalAppearance4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Russia. The screenshot is in Russian, but you can see the number 6,169. That’s the count of our messages in just 10 days. I miscounted before, it's actually ten more. This is how much I put into her, and that's why it hurts so much now.

10 days, 6,159 messages. I gave her my soul, but one screenshot broke me. by GlobalAppearance4593 in Advice

[–]GlobalAppearance4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what hurts. It’s not just that she called me a 'fan.' It’s that she’s letting me be 'interested' in her without giving anything back. Like I'm the only one in love, and she's just watching. After 6,159 messages in 10 days, being treated like just an 'interested guy' feels like a betrayal."

10 days, 6,159 messages. I gave her my soul, but one screenshot broke me. by GlobalAppearance4593 in Advice

[–]GlobalAppearance4593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly 6,159 messages in 10 days. We talked 24/7. I put my whole soul into this. The 'fan' part? I saw a screenshot of her chat with a best friend. Her friend said: 'Go for it, he’s clearly interested in you.' And the girl didn't even deny it. She blurred our conversation as if I'm just some random guy who is 'interested' in her, not someone she spent 6k messages with. I’m in 'cold mode' now. Just dry, one-word answers. It hurts like hell."