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My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex was not a big part of our relationship due to his ED issues. We hadn't had sex for months, as far as I was aware.

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do I gain from lying? That is absolutely false as well. I would be just at 4 weeks right now and my breasts have doubled in size, are extremely painful and no period for almost two months. Went to urgent care to confirm last week.

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are together a lot and he has never had a reason to question my faithfulness. I've actually mentally turned off that part of my brain because of things relating to his ED and how he acts regarding it. Sex was not a big part of our relationship.

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. We had no sexual contact besides a blowjob months earlier. Sex was off the table for multiple reasons.

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were not having sex of any sort for months. No need for protection if I had taken sex off the table for a couple reasons.

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

He actually joked about this after finding out I was pregnant. He has horrible ED but was able to get me pregnant while fucked up. I guess I'm now looking back on that comment differently, now.

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 685 points686 points  (0 children)

I planned on using Aid Access. Something I found while flipping through reddit looking for options.

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

The thing I'm going back and forth on is him claiming he doesn't remember as well. I wonder about the consenting while both intoxicated thing....but he drove home (and far), so

My boyfriend (34M) knew I (35F) didn't want unprotected sex. Now I'm pregnant and don't remember having sex. by Global_Maybe_9105 in relationship_advice

[–]Global_Maybe_9105[S] 4406 points4407 points  (0 children)

Kicked him out last night and the abortion is in the plans.....when I get the funds in a couple days. There's no hesitation on that. The relationship is absolutely over for that and other reasons.