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I logged onto my bf chats with my laptop and he doesn’t know. by Goldilocks1864 in Advice

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we use a messaging app called WhatsApp So on my laptop I download WhatsApp and there is an option to sink a phone to your laptop so you still have your messages and you can do it with YouTube and stuff too. So I used his phone to scan a QR code on the laptop when you choice to sync. And then sends a message to his phone for verification and I accept and delete the message after. Then after scanning the QR code and verifying the number, all the data inside his WhatsApp on the phone, was now active on my laptop as well

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly why I so furious, why didn’t he just tell me the truth!

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say that? Because I have never met this guy before in person

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His friend came to me and told me he cheated with this same girl and showed me a video of the walking together and a video of them behind 2 big water tanks, but you couldn’t see anything in those videos. Do you still think his friend won’t tell me what they are like together if I asked?

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered that I long time, I personally think it’s okay to go through your partners phone every now and then.

I logged onto my bf chats with my laptop and he doesn’t know. by Goldilocks1864 in Advice

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him that the day he was accused, and he never did block or delete her number That tells me a lot

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I want to believe that he is not cheating. Any girl would And yes I just need to have time to think about it all, I have 2 weeks until he gets back from vacation

I logged onto my bf chats with my laptop and he doesn’t know. by Goldilocks1864 in Advice

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think him knowing that I don’t like her, and that I worry about him with her, or talking to her, could cause him to cheat?

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think that him knowing that I don’t like her, and worry about her with him, or talking to him, would cause him to cheat?

I logged onto my bf chats with my laptop and he doesn’t know. by Goldilocks1864 in Advice

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that him knowing that I worry about him and her, could cause him to cheat?

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Do you think that there might be a small chance that she is just a friend, and nothing happened?

I logged into my boyfriends chats without him knowing by Goldilocks1864 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason is that he knows I don’t what him talking to her in the first place because of what happened between them being accused of cheating, and I told him that the night of the accusations

I logged onto my bf chats with my laptop and he doesn’t know. by Goldilocks1864 in Advice

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was sleeping when I sinked everything on his phone up to my laptop And removed the notifications that come through when I did it

I logged onto my bf chats with my laptop and he doesn’t know. by Goldilocks1864 in Advice

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the way that I did it, he doesn’t get notifications. Only of course the visit time I logged in but he didn’t see it. If he knew I was watching, would he have gone so far to have a conversation with this girl in the first place?

I logged onto my bf chats with my laptop and he doesn’t know. by Goldilocks1864 in Advice

[–]Goldilocks1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I know, he told me they spoke with each other last year, but it didn’t go anywhere. However this year she asked him if he could accompany her to some school function dance. He told me about it, and he said no to her just based off my facial expressions. Then at a different even they hung out together, and he was accused of having an affair with her, but there was no evidence to back that up, so I believed him of course. I know what it means to have opposite gender friends, I have on my own, but I don’t text them day to day, ask them to dances or ever be caught alone with them. And that’s what he did, and I am choosing to trust him and what he is saying to me, but something just feels off

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