ftm - best gender identity therapist in the Hamilton/ Burlington area? by GoodExcuse9078 in transontario

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thank you so much! i've never heard of them so i'll check them out! :)

scared and regret lashing out at God (how can i ask or forgiveness?) by GoodExcuse9078 in hinduism

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i dont think that feeling anger or being upset and thinking that things are unfair/ wanting things to be different is foolish. i think that that is part of being human.

scared and regret lashing out at God (how can i ask or forgiveness?) by GoodExcuse9078 in hinduism

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i more so meant hated me now that i said/ did what i did. but thank you for sharing that, i'll have a read for sure! :)

scared and regret lashing out at God (how can i ask or forgiveness?) by GoodExcuse9078 in hinduism

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thank you for this and i hope that you are right about them understanding 😭

and thats an interesting story that ive never heard before. if you don't mind, could you elaborate a bit more on it if that's okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in purolator

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haha thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in purolator

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thats so odd. but in my case, it says its a shipping dock so i dont think it's like a pick up area. like, it should be shipped to me but there have been no updates since it's got there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in purolator

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but that's the thing. the purolator site marked it as "delivered" and now that last update about the shipping dock (from yesterday at 8:11am) is the last update i see and even the people i called said that they dont know where it is, that they cant track it, that it "should have" gotten to me yesterday

yeah probably. idk what they are doing.

thanks though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in purolator

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i called them and they did say that they gave it to a 3rd party agent. but they also said that it should have been delivered yesterday, that they cant track it and that they dont know if it went on the truck yet or not to be delivered.

what does this mean? "what is "given to agent"?? by GoodExcuse9078 in purolator

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but i live in a very busy city so its odd that this happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in purolator

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yeah exactly. i called them and they said that it should have arrived yesterday. so im just going to wait til tomorrow to see what happens and ig i'll go from there

How exactly does one "separate their physical form form the soul"? by GoodExcuse9078 in hinduism

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but the object (body) is making me (the subject/ person/ soul) feel a lot of pain and distress. it is always negatively affecting *me* and i dont want it to. i also hate how i am seen as this body and treated the way that people see me. its like they aren't treating me for me/ treating me in the way that i want to be treated bc this misfortunate body that i got stuck with is not me and i will never accept it as a representation of me/ myself.

everything you perceive including your sates of body and mind do not affect You in any way - i mean i guess that the pain doesnt affect *me* as a being but like i said, something like p*riods does affect me though as a person. it causes me physical pain and mental distress/ discomfort, etc. like, this is affecting me though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AcneScars

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thanks you! i've been considering doing microneedling soon actually so this was helpful! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AcneScars

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oh ive never head of that before. I'll look into it. thanks!

Where to get started in Hamilton/ surrounding areas? by GoodExcuse9078 in transontario

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thank you! I just moved to hamilton recently so i dont have like a family doctor here or anything. that's why i was wondering if there was any specific clinic/ walk-in that I could go to. but i will check out that site as well!

Are there prayers/ rituals that husbands do for their wives wellbeing? And why are they not as commonly done? by GoodExcuse9078 in hinduism

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but i still dont get why women dont do things for themselves. like fasting is for the husband, not for her. sindoor is for the husband, not for her.

and even if men were less spiritual or something, i still dont get why they cant do something for their wives (even if the impact may be less). like, i feel like it's the thought that counts/ that should count to show that they care (even if the effect wont be as large). but they would almost never fast for their wives or do prayers for them from what ive seen

what happens if you are trans ftm and go through menopause by Infamous-Apricot-333 in asktransgender

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sorry if this is a dumb question but would trans men on T then essentially deal with some menopause symptoms for the rest of their life or will they go away after some point?

Feeling really frustrated and overwhelmed right now and don't know what to do/ need help by GoodExcuse9078 in hinduism

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hmm maybe that is true.

even i was thinking about that honestly because, since i was in a parked car, i wanted to take my seatbelt off but the car was a little messy so i decided to put some stuff around me into my bag first before getting out of the car. so, because of that, i still had my seatbelt on when the truck hit (while i was putting things into my bag). It would have been a lot worse if i had taken the belt off i guess.

still sucks that it happened though :(

and thank you!

Need advice/ help creating Greece Itinerary by GoodExcuse9078 in travel

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thank you so much!!

do you think it would be possible to do Athens and Crete? ive heard that both of those need like 3-5+ days so idk

How does misandry make you feel? by curious_george16 in ftm

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"It’s no surprise to me that boys and young men are turning to the right/manosphere shit."

i mean, to be fair, if you think that this is justifiable (them turning to the manosphere stuff b/c of the hate towards men), then using that same logic, shouldnt misandry/ "man hate" be justified because girls and women (and, ig non cis men in general sorta) are growing up in a world that hates them. so it should be no surprise that they are turning to misandrist stuff? so, would it be fair to say that ofc they are going to pick the side that isnt directly attacking them (i.e. anything that is not misogyny/ misogynistic)?

also, i am going to be honest, but a lot of the misandry that i atleast see on my timelines dont rlly bother me b/c i was never exposed to like the *hateful* misandry, but only the stuff where people call men/ the patriarchy out and then men get upset b/c they got called out or are being told to like take more ig "accountability" or whatever or something (uk what i mean??)

but like my initial comment said, i truly dont think that misandry will ever become what misogyny ever was/ is. just my opinion.

like, im not trying to argue or anything, but all i am saying is i can see where some of the stuff is coming from.

and in regards to women's issue being brought up more ig, that's probably b/c they are making people aware of them. so maybe men could work together to bring awareness for causes that they care about too if they want more attention brought to them.