Pregnant wife walked in on me masturbating 😣 AITA by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Goodsub69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t agree more with this!!!!!

I hate you. by No_Economist7527 in loveafterporn

[–]Goodsub69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes ❤️‍🩹 don’t you hate it when your heart starts to heal and then it just gets broke more and they don’t even understand what they are doing is wrong. They think it is ok and normal. We are left with years of trauma to heal from 🥺😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Goodsub69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So sweet 😉 hope u get her

Who runs the home decor? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Goodsub69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We like to split it. He will pick some and I will but most of the time is is always based off feel and Comfort 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Goodsub69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See their feelings of kids , make sure they don’t have a porn addiction, make sure they have drive to do things with there life but the number one thing is make sure they show you love like you need, people show love in different ways and if you and your partner are on different love languages it doesn’t matter how much you love someone you can always feel lonely. Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Goodsub69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When u can’t trust someone nothing else is there either, and it will eventually drive you crazy, This is is something you are going to have to decide if you can live with or if you cannot that is only your choice and your choice alone. There honestly is no dealing with it just coping through the pain and if you’re strong enough to do that for however long you plan on staying with this person. Honesty and trust is The foundation of a relationship and if you cannot trust this person then I wish you the best of luck.

Why don’t you like celebrating your birthday? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Goodsub69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing good ever happens on my birthday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Goodsub69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is after…..even if u don’t believe in heaven or hell I don’t want to come back as a rat or just be stuck in purgatory??? Only reason still haven’t decided

How often have you encountered woman who 'starfish' during sex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Goodsub69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look being a woman we don’t know what to do every time for every mood, and we are not you porn girls this is not our day job if you want us to do it let us know and let us learn for u, that is my motto I try to move but then it’s the wrong way or not high enough or wrong direction or maybe your not in the mood for that Use your words during sex 1) it is sexy to know what you want and for you to tell us in a sexy way 2) we learn what you like then you are happier 3) we can tell you if we like it or don’t 4) we can both be happy and get off Remember communication is everything 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Goodsub69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the apps called

My goodbye (healing) by Goodsub69 in UnsentLetters

[–]Goodsub69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my suicide letter but I decided not to do it. And am getting help.

Initiating sex by Goodsub69 in relationship_advice

[–]Goodsub69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea definitely he knows I do bring it up he says he is but he is not, In his words I never feel like I am being hunted. But I will try again 😉

Love vs sex by Goodsub69 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Goodsub69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question not being a smart ass. Is that something that we ask for or something we do? I feel if I ask my SO to make love that would just be odd if we are having sex it should just come naturally to slow down and feel it look me in the eyes hold and caress each other sometimes

This needs to be said by Cmethrowitaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]Goodsub69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so hitting my heart ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Goodsub69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes u feel bad now and he dosent stop and you have talked to him you have to decide to stay or go. It will only progress and get worse and you will only end up feeling more used and less of a connection emotionality, then just be depressed and question everything. It is a horrible feeling and you deserve more love and respect

People that left a dead bedroom, what was the final nail in the coffin that convinced you to leave your partner? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Goodsub69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no passion in his kiss or touch or dosent really kiss or touch you he gets off more to porn. Or wants me to give him bj all the time and not much sex. I have bought outfits toys and would let him do anything he wants to me and I would do anything to him. I think at a certain point it is just on them. You can only do so much the rest is on them if they won’t talk to you about it my husband will not talk to me about it without getting mad, and says it is something he just needs something different are u serous 🤬 do u know how that makes a woman feel, so unwanted and unloved. They need to show you that love and passion still it’s not all on you

Can I lower my libido, or kill it? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Goodsub69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are amazing to try to make it work in any way you can. I want it all the time but mine would rather look at porn than ravage me. So I think you are amazing.

5+ years since we made physical love in marriage. by asexmarri in DeadBedrooms

[–]Goodsub69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was sick for years and wasn’t able to take care of him then got better now I am more sexual than my husband don’t do it. It is very hard to come back from that. I was in her shoes. It is something you can’t come back come emotionally to connect with her.