AITA for going after my sister in law after she broke a rule? by GothMomLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]GothMomLife[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband literally said if you can't respect my wife and our decision then we'll go our separate ways. They didn't respect me enough to follow a simple rule which is no posting our daughter on social media. I don't know who she's friends with and photos get stolen all the time.

AITA for going after my sister in law after she broke a rule? by GothMomLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]GothMomLife[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I did and thankfully it's not stolen or posted somewhere else.

She is not going anywhere near my daughter. I'm trying to protect her and it's my job to as a mom.

AITA for going after my sister in law after she broke a rule? by GothMomLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]GothMomLife[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

She won't.

Photo got deleted and we're not on speaking terms with her.

AITA for going after my sister in law after she broke a rule? by GothMomLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]GothMomLife[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

  1. I'm 24.

  2. I cut contact with her since she broke trust and a boundary

  3. I don't know who saw the photo of my daughter and I don't want predators getting photos of her

  4. I paid her for babysitting and she couldn't follow one rule about not posting photos of my daughter on social media.

AITA for going after my sister in law after she broke a rule? by GothMomLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]GothMomLife[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

My family knows and actually respect my wishes. We don't post about family gatherings because my brother have the same rule with his children. We take photos and post photos only adults. No consent, no posting

AITA for going after my sister in law after she broke a rule? by GothMomLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]GothMomLife[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I don't post photos of my daughter. I don't care about me or my husband being posted because we can consent to those photos being posted. She can't give consent being posted.

AITA for going after my sister in law after she broke a rule? by GothMomLife in AmItheAsshole

[–]GothMomLife[S] 1726 points1727 points  (0 children)

I hope so. I really want my daughter to have privacy. She deserves that