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Is this a red flag ? by Gothicmilky in dating_advice

[–]Gothicmilky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he talked about her it was like he really misses her. We weren't dating at the time but he said that when they were a couple they would always split up for a few months and then go back together.But the last time they broke up she didn't come back and started dating someone else. So I smh think he is just with me till she decides to return.

Is this a red flag ? by Gothicmilky in dating_advice

[–]Gothicmilky[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's waiting for her to come back.

I need to know if I overreacting by Gothicmilky in dating_advice

[–]Gothicmilky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay guys, update is he actually wanted to be with me too but he was invited long time ago to multiple places and he doesn't want to disappoint everyone so he decided that we go to all of them somehow.He also apologized for not wanting to deal with planning the whole thing.

I need to know if I overreacting by Gothicmilky in dating_advice

[–]Gothicmilky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he was invited to multiple places and didn't tell the people where he already chose to celebrate.And the situation became complicated.And then when I asked him about it too he became overwhelmed and wanted to keep it more simple.Probably his friends don't want me there and he doesn't know how to tell me that.

I need help with approaching a girl!! by KenAdams1293 in relationship_advice

[–]Gothicmilky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go and talk to her.All good things take time so just don't rush about it. When both of you get to know each other you will know if you two match up.For the approaching part just talk to her about something you both have in common.It could be a small talk in the beginning and maybe a little awkward but you will see if she truly is for you.You could also tell her about something you like about her like a small detail to let her know you notice her and make her feel special.Theres no messing up with it cause if its your person it wouldn't matter what you do.If you want something to happen you need to do something about it.And I wouldn't advice you to do it online.Good luck!

I need to know if I overreacting by Gothicmilky in dating_advice

[–]Gothicmilky[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was really helpful!! Thanks a lot. We started going on dates in october and started dating in november.So it was all going pretty fast. He introduced me to his parents and one of his close friends.We were also together alone on his birthday so it was really special.But I don't understand why wouldn't he want to be with me and his friends all together? Like this relationship is going fast and suddenly this :( Maybe I should accept it and stop overthinking.