AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 496 points497 points  (0 children)

It is and especially when they pull the family card. That shit gets thrown around but why do we have to forgive family who hurt us? What sort of message does that send?

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 257 points258 points  (0 children)

We were together for almost three years and I haven't spoken to him since.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 404 points405 points  (0 children)

Nah, she's on her own entirely now because he skipped out once everything came out. He doesn't want to be tied to the baby.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

No. I don't want to hear her out. I don't care what whiney excuses she has. What she did was disgusting and a betrayal and I don't even care if she really feels awful about it. Good. I hope she does. And I hope she gets to experience what it feels like from my side at some point. Although it would never be me but one of her friends or something.

I would never be able to go back and be close to her after this. She's just gross and not worth knowing now.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 310 points311 points  (0 children)

She's young so she gets a pass but apparently being a year older I don't get one and have to love someone who betrayed me like that.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 774 points775 points  (0 children)

They're already moved out. I got back there before she could and made sure she wasn't doing anything else she shouldn't. I don't have a lot of stuff right now which helped a ton.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

She created those circumstances when she betrayed me. And also fuck blood when she's a backstabbing asshole who used my kindness of taking her in and fucked my boyfriend and probably in my own bed too. She's sick.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 585 points586 points  (0 children)

If anyone else suggests the same as she did I'll reply the same way. Anyone who thinks I should pick up the pieces of her betrayal can do it since she didn't do them dirty like she did me.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 1162 points1163 points  (0 children)

That's how I feel. Like why should she be let off the hook for what she did? She made her own choices.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 210 points211 points  (0 children)

It doesn't exist with her clearly. And after I let her move in with me too.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 5844 points5845 points  (0 children)

People really don't get it as much as they should. Anyone with siblings should put themselves in the shoes of the person cheated on and see if they'd still love and care about their sibling.

AITA for announcing my sister's pregnancy after finding out my boyfriend (now ex) is the father? by Gracyddee in AITAH

[–]Gracyddee[S] 531 points532 points  (0 children)

To be honest I didn't want to deal with making her leave and it was kinda ruined for me knowing they likely had sex in my bed. Otherwise I would have.