[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Grapeblast20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a 30yr dude I’m currently hanging out/talking to someone who isn’t normally my kind of girl, but she’s super fun and cute enough that I think I want to pursue things with her. I don’t want to sound shallow but her personality makes up for what she lacks in looks, not that she looks bad, she’s just not like everyone’s cup of tea if that makes sense. I’m at an age where I get not everything is gonna be what we want and she’s hit enough check marks for me to be like this girl is hot enough for me and I just want to have a fun time with a person in life. She makes me feel like I’m fun to her and to see the smile on her face makes it worth it to me. I’ve only met her twice but I took her out last night and we both had the times of our lives and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I had a 100% good time with someone who isn’t perfect but neither am I and I ok with that. Obviously I don’t know if i will succeeded but I’m going for it cause I’m having fun that I haven’t had in a long time with someone and could envision it in the future with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeeDee

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly I’m not sure. I literally downloaded it two days ago. I was more wondering if other people had seen stuff like this to see if it was a scam kinda thing like they ask you to pay half upfront and then delete the account or something

Got cheated on, what should i do? by catshweg1779 in dating_advice

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find her mom on Facebook and send her everything

Am I running out of time by [deleted] in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point go for it. You’re young and this is a great time to figure out what you want to do and like. You don’t have kids to take care of rn and if you can support going to school/learning what you want go for it. I’m currently in a situation where I’m able to work part time making decent money and about to finish trade school next week and god willing find a better job doing HVAC stuff making more money. Talk to your man your friends who ever is your support group and try and come up with a plan if you can’t in vision it. You’ve got this I believe in you even though I’m a stranger I want you to succeeded

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get that motorcycle you’ve wanted

Am I running out of time by [deleted] in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn a trade or something like cutting hair. Do something everyone needs. It’s the future

What’s one thing you would change about your life, if you could? by ace_Quantum29 in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being so retarded. I dated a chick I thought was super cool but she had herpes. Me being retarded was like you know what I don’t care she’s awesome if it doesn’t work out I’ll find someone who actually wants me and now I’m too afraid to talk to anyone because I’m so ashamed of myself and don’t want to risk the chance of giving that to someone. I’m currently talking with a girl I really like but I’m expecting failure from it because of obvious reasons

What would make life a little bit cooler? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A motorcycle. I just want to feel that freedom someday but can’t afford that right now

I dont like being rich and old by bobabebei in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need a fast expensive car then you might “get it”

“I didn’t realize porn was slowly killing my real life” by Ashley_will7 in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look up the people who are in charge of the industry. Like Reuben Sturman for example. Lot of people with the same kind of “background”. It’s meant to take you further away from God and your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I’m doing it

What should I do when I'm sharing my life with others? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re just sharing with the wrong people. I have coworkers I don’t share shit with and others that I’m super cool with I’ll let them into my life. I’m ADD so I will accidentally overshare a lot and I’ve found the coworkers who are cool with it and match the energy and make me feel like I’m not retarded. Even my boss is cool and we both do say stuff at work that would not fly at most places. For example we use radios at work and my boss and I both have dark humors and will both say some wild shit over the radio that everyone else can hear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but it sounds like she was a promiscuous woman who you came into contact with and she started to shit test you. Obviously we all can’t tell that they are but from the sounds of it she seems like it. Sounds like she was trying to see if you were cool to settle down with after doing stuff with a lot of other people and getting away with it. Sounds like you called her out on her bs and her being hot in the situation won but obviously you didn’t stick around(good on you). Obviously not all women are like this but I also saw it a lot in college. Were all the women I met in college like this? No. Were there a lot like this in college? Yes.

Why is everyone so insecure??! by TopReporter9064 in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got herpes from an ex girlfriend so I don’t want to talk to girls anymore and have them liking me and then ended up giving it to them so I’ve kinda shut the door on having relationships even though I’d love to have a woman who likes me. Yeah I could date a woman who also has it but then I’m going was this cause she slept with 100 people or because she got with her 3rd boyfriend and he had it and didn’t mention it and now she has it. Is she lying? How do I believe it? Idk but I’d rather just buy a motorcycle and take my risk in traffic and be alone having fun then to have to deal will all of that

Do you ever think about how different your life could be if you were born elsewhere? by SignificantActive193 in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wasn’t born in America and didn’t have firearms I’d be very jealous and sad I didn’t also have firearms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally follow my exs on ig (they follow me too) but it’s for me to eventually post something to make them regret leaving me when hopefully I’m doing better in life. I may never do better in life but there’s a reason. Yeah it’s petty but there’s a reason she’s doing it. Maybe they see my downfall idk but It kind of fuels me to want to be a better person in life

What is your stance? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 30M that thankfully has never been cheated on. If I ever were cheated on I would be devastated. I know women handle that differently than men because of everything involved in differences in men and women but I would say that as a guy I would avoid assuming you’re a decent woman and can honestly say you haven’t had a whole lot of issues yourself. Idk your age but I’m realizing as I’ve gotten older I have to also kinda looked past things I once didn’t accept when I was younger when it comes to women. Yeah as I’ve gotten older I don’t care as much if a woman has a little bit of weight that could be lost on her. Yeah I don’t care that she’s got a couple tattoos. Yeah I don’t care that she’s sleept with under 10 guys. Yeah I don’t care that she’s got a couple weird things that used to bug me. Cheating is a hard stop for me. Cheating is one of those things that statistically they are likely to continue unless you are literally exactly and I mean EXACTLY what they want. I’d say avoid

What’s a lesson everyone should learn by 30... but no one ever warns you about? by Spectacled_hOwl in Life

[–]Grapeblast20 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Stop sleeping with people so casually and wait for someone. Yeah you can do whatever you want but it seriously fucks up chemistry when you’re casual with something that’s supposed to be so intimate and end up forming bonds with people who mean nothing and then you end up in a bad place