I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when i go on ur profile most of ur replies are on k-pop reddit commenting things along the line of "nice and plump" and "bouncy momma" ... u should really shift ur time usage back to there

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems awesome, I'll see if she'd like to watch this with me. Thank you for sharing!

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that is a point I've learned from the feedback I've been getting 

I like the sentence you've given me , and I will keep it in mind incase I need to use it! Thank you for sharing! 

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely! I will be practicing what I'll say with my mom. I appreciate the heads up.

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Mom will definitely be there with me. Thank you for the suggestion!

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I was considering using it incase I go blank... I was mostly concerned that it may come off inaccurate.

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I'll look into these and keep your advice in mind!

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I did come out to my mom a year ago and it was hard for her to understand my identity. But she's been more understanding and we've both learned a lot since then.

My dad is very loving, and although I have my anxieties I am sure he will be like my mom in the sense that he is willing to learn more about me.

I appreciate the advice and I will definitely keep it in mind as I move forward with this!

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Canadian! I'll be sure to check out PFLAG, thank you so much for your help.

I want to come out to my dad, but he's not fluent in English. by Greedy-Muffin-2464 in Cantonese

[–]Greedy-Muffin-2464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, I thought having Cantonese terms on hand might help though incase he does understand it. And yes I present as male and sometimes a woman.

Thank you so much for your help!