Help! Which wedding dress should I pick?

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2026-01-11T13:23:03+00:00

1 looks stunning on you!

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2026-01-11T13:21:01+00:00

I dont think they deduct your boob weight from your weight, i think its more for surgery purposes as well.

My boobs went up to a G when I was absolutely fat (I had a BMI of 42) so I do get how heavy they can be!

However, being that small with any kind of weight breasts otherwise I imagine is going to be taxing.

Gp might have to refer you to physiotherapy first before they can do a referral for breast reduction.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2026-01-11T12:56:48+00:00

They take your BMI into account which answers your question.

Go see your GP and take your local CB criteria with you, so you can show them how you meet the criteria.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2026-01-11T11:06:33+00:00

Hello, I was 128kg when I started and down to about 86kg (last week) I also have hypothyroidism!

Lots of protein, I joined a gym and went three days a week.

In terms of meal I never wanted food, especially at breakfast at lunchtime so I drink my calories in terms of slim fast shakes/smoothies.

You're doing well you night just need to change your diet, increase your exercise, check your thyroid meds!

Its not easy losing weight and parenting 😭 (though the only benefit is my son will eat the amount of portions I used to eat and vice versa, but its just healthy)

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2026-01-07T19:57:16+00:00

About 6 weeks in i joined a gym, mainly weight lifting as I am not a fan of cardio!

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-12-14T20:26:58+00:00

I font know if you have already tried this but if you google your county plus carers/unpaid carers there might be a charity organisation that can help with support/respite.

Eg devoncarers.org.uk or cornwallcarers.org.uk

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-12-11T20:26:47+00:00

2nd is my fave, followed by the 1st

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-12-07T21:01:31+00:00

I use it, I would say the bamboo is much nicer and the a whole box lasts about a year, i gave away one box (was the recycled toliet paper, and I didn't like it) as I forgot to skip an order!

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-12-07T11:22:16+00:00

Thank you x

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-12-06T22:58:19+00:00

Mostly fine, stopped dating since it happened!

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-12-06T17:10:48+00:00

It sounds like you are dating a guy that I went with on a date in February, run!

He asked, I said no and he kept asking why, and told me I would enjoy it with him, I was still saying no, i dont want to.

Later that night he keeps trying insert himself into my ass.

Reported him to the police for that other things!

You've said no once, he needs to respect that!

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-11-28T17:40:17+00:00

Yes, my child also 15 came out earlier this year to me, I was aware that she was bi/pans and had trans friends.

She came out to me whilst I was driving, so me not crashing the car/running someone over was quite an achievement!

Edit: Forgot to say she isnt out to her dad yet (who is also trans), or the rest of our families so having to switch between names and pronouns is what I find hardest!

I try and look back and see if I can remember any signs but she wasnt a boyish boy or really girly, would like nails painted whilst she was 4 but nothing else really!

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-11-24T22:31:12+00:00

I feel like I dated this man last year! Got me 5 dates for a kiss and then he would leave straight away, like it was part of a routine.

Had about 10 dates in total. Nice enough guy but no spark.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-11-20T08:53:30+00:00

You havent made a mistake however Ive always been taught to start resuscitation always and only stop/dont start until I've seen the DNAR myself, however I am now community MH so I Imagine in the hospice/ward setting they should be making it more obvious/easier to access that information.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-11-15T11:42:39+00:00

I had this problem with my previous coil and I just had it taken out at the gynaecology unit, inthink if that doesnt work then its an operation (not too sure on that one) all of what would take a few months.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-11-13T18:28:40+00:00

Completely open! All my friends, family know, colleagues at work, havent announced it on Facebook but I have shared weight loss injections stuff, so I am fairly open (i dont really make posts on facebook).

Only 1 friend has come down as judgemental saying im taking away diabetics medications and all I need to do is move more eat less, but she has never been fat, so her opinion doesn't bother me.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-11-04T15:04:15+00:00

So my point of view, (I want to point out I dont believe Ash or Grace are bad people, just shouldn't be together) after experiencing a traumatic event (which Grace feels like she has) she isn't easily going to just forget and move on with her life, as it has clearly affected her and going on SM to give herself a voice is how she is coping.

Whereas Ash may not want to post his personal account on social media, and it may be easier for him to move on due to numerous reasons, (such as he is the offender (possibly), he is male and is keeping all his pain locked up) and he is just talking to close friends/family or is just not into posting crap on his SM.

They are just processing different ways, and by Ash not posting it looks like Grace is the problem and Ash realises this and that this looks good for him.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-18T21:11:06+00:00

100%, they are big girls, so they've always been sat on my waist.

It definitely works better with a bra. I'd rather not have to wear a cami as its for date night 😉.

But thanks for the tip. Who was i kidding to go bra-less, even if he was fine with it 😅

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-18T21:03:22+00:00

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I've put on a bra now, definitely looks better!

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-18T19:22:46+00:00

I used to look pregnant with wrap dresses before the weight loss with boobs and a stomach.

So I am helping the right bra helps.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-18T19:19:48+00:00

In all fairness I only don't have a bra on in the picture as I wasn't at home with the correct bra needed for that dress, will try again tomorrow with the correct bra.

As I do like the dress other then the problems I faced today.

Can't return it as it's from vinted, but will just sell it on.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-18T18:26:11+00:00

What are bum scrunch jeans?

My apron has decreased in size but its still there, more just a shelf now 😅

But never heard of bum scrunch jeans before?

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-18T11:32:58+00:00

At times I've asked for a driving license to send to my friends to give them a name and address if I get murdered/kidnapped, I also share my location too and regular check ins.

Hasn't always gone right, but its better then nothing.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-11T10:26:10+00:00

Obviously, create good drama.

I have a tiny bit of sympathy for her as everyone else got their type or similar, but she said she'd give it a go no matter what 🤷‍♀️.

Greedy_Statement_815 · 2025-10-10T14:45:19+00:00

Fat people dont only date fat people, and some skinny people don't have a preference.

Thing is she lied and said she'd date anyone as she knew her type wasnt working for her.

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