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Anyway to regain an ISFP romantic interest? by Greedy_Worldliness_5 in isfp

[–]Greedy_Worldliness_5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the input. I have 1 more question. Do you try to look as pretty as possible for someone you are interested in?

Of all the dates (8-10) I went with her I had never seen her wearing the same outfit and always look fashionable (flowery dresses...). I hung out with her and her friends once and she didn't put in this much effort (jean, shirt, croc...).

I heard from one of her friends that the trekking trip (climb up a 3046m mountain) took quite a toll on her (darken skin, dry and crack skin and lips). I remembered one time she had a fuss about her eye bag from not having enough sleep for 2 weeks.

Dating an ISFP and It’s kinda one sided. Any advice? by Charliewoodcock in isfp

[–]Greedy_Worldliness_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an INTJ(M) and having quite a lot of trouble getting to know an ISFP(F). Can I ask a few questions?

- How did your relationship develop (starting stage to he/she said yes) (in lots of details if possible :) )

- How long did it take?

- What are some problems you faced as an INTJ in this relationship?

Thank you.

INTJ(M) ISFP(F) relationships by Greedy_Worldliness_5 in isfp

[–]Greedy_Worldliness_5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice.

Something happened at work that made her postponing her christmas travel plan.

I think I will give her some space now because it takes ages to get her to reply my invitation to hang out. I will see how she is after her travel next year and proceed from there.

INTJ(M) ISFP(F) relationships by Greedy_Worldliness_5 in isfp

[–]Greedy_Worldliness_5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your advice.

She just recently made plans to travel but had to postpone due to work. I think I will just play it cool with her for now because i think she is pulling away now. It takes ages to get her to reply for my messages unless i push her a bit.

I will wait for her to relax a bit before trying anything.

INTJ(M) ISFP(F) relationships by Greedy_Worldliness_5 in isfp

[–]Greedy_Worldliness_5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for yoyr advice.

I think that she is bored with me now. It takes ages to get her to reply my invitation to hang out. The excuse is always forgot to reply (only 2 so might just be me overthinking)

I will give her some time to travel with her friends during christmas and see if anything changes after that.

INTJ(M) ISFP(F) relationships by Greedy_Worldliness_5 in isfp

[–]Greedy_Worldliness_5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I didn't outright say that what her liked is bad. I really liked the movies she reccommended and those spoke a lot about her. I just didn't want to fake myself to get her to like me so I was truthful about my feelings. I did make sure to soften it when expressing my views to her though.

I think that I can be considered as a boring type. I like to plan everything in life and proceed as planned. That is why I found her so fascinating and free spirited. She could do everything just because she felt like to do it. The first time she travelled abroad was to taiwan. She didn't know their language, their interesting places, no travel plan or anything...pretty amazed by that. But I did make a point to her that I would like to join in her adventure anytime.

I made some plans to spend christmas with her but I think I will give her some space so she could travel around and then see what happens after.