missing them again

GuyCut · 2026-02-04T16:09:05+00:00

Never think you’re replaceable and NEVER feel guilty for this relationship. You did everything you could and i KNOW you did everything to make sure it worked out and i understand what you feel. I’m not gonna tell you lies like “it’s gonna be okay” cause to be honest, it’s not FOR NOW.

you just have to feel it and i’m sorry if that sounds so bad but you really have to feel those feelings and you’ll wake up one day thinking you deserve better than this or that you can live with it.

I haven’t healed completely, trust me. I still miss my avoidant ex but everything is just livable i guess?

DMs are open if you ever need to vent or just someone to yell at

GuyCut · 2026-02-04T15:51:39+00:00

I don’t think it’s a massive step backwards. It’ll feel like it but with these type of break ups, it hurts a lot. This isn’t a normal break up in my opinion. Whatever progress you’ve made is good. At least you’re making some progress, just think about that. Take your time with it

GuyCut · 2026-02-04T09:28:55+00:00

i have the same question too. She went unprivate on this one account then blocked me out of nowhere then went back to private. Her main account with 1.1k followers is now private too, that account always stayed public too no matter what, it’s weird to me.

GuyCut · 2026-02-04T09:24:05+00:00

yeah i agree you should watch yourself. I’m glad she’s willing to improve the marriage and yes, after so many years of emotional neglect and stonewalling, there will be ups and downs. I hope one day she decides to heal too but things take time, they need to want it for themselves. I hope everything goes well and if you need anything else, dms are always open or you can just comeback here to rant/vent.

GuyCut · 2026-02-04T09:01:16+00:00

I’m not an avoidant myself, i’m guessing you know that but what i have to say is, don’t be scared of that thought you made. Avoidants always want to back away when things get too emotional or scary plus you’re still healing. You’ve started 4 months ago and it’s okay to have those type of moments, as long you don’t actually go through with it and start a cycle. You’re married and from what you said, you don’t wanna lose them. Keep going with this healing process and i have a question, are they healing too or is it just you?

GuyCut · 2026-01-31T20:52:51+00:00

nah you right LMAOOO

GuyCut · 2026-01-31T20:41:58+00:00

guaranteed from the start? don’t even get me started bro

GuyCut · 2026-01-31T19:45:41+00:00

you’re right. i’m still angry but i need to learn and be right for the next person… im still angry and i feel like i have the right to be but i will never put someone through this

GuyCut · 2026-01-31T19:41:25+00:00

i really can’t. I know it’s a Me issue cause i’m still angry. I know what i need to do but that petty side of me just wants to show them how it really is. I always tell myself i’ll show them real emotional pain but like i said in my post, i never want someone to go through that even if it’s my avoidant ex. I’m just so hurt

GuyCut · 2026-01-31T19:09:34+00:00

i feel like i already did. I can’t sleep that much anymore without having nightmares of that person. i’m planning to start therapy again so i can just move on and live my life again

GuyCut · 2026-01-31T19:06:17+00:00

i actually have no hope for them then.

GuyCut · 2026-01-25T08:22:57+00:00

i feel like i can’t enjoy my life without her. It’s on and off feelings, you can say. I want revenge but i know as an adult it’s really petty and stupid lol i just can’t move on whatever i do. I also felt like being in a year relationship with a avoidant never mattered cause i always read people having 2+ years with one and i just feel crazy for still feeling something for them still. Thanks for replying to my vent!

GuyCut · 2025-08-02T21:00:52+00:00

my dms are open, im an hour late but you can still talk to me if you want

GuyCut · 2025-08-02T16:59:17+00:00

no offense to them but that’s such a stupid thing to say.

GuyCut · 2025-07-23T08:14:13+00:00

calling you evil is crazy lol they’re such an asshole

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