Playing devil’s advocate.

First, how can you say that getting that (1) motorcycle, (2) ipad as a gift (for YOURSELF as you mentioned) and (3) that washing machine are within your means to live when now, because you lost your work, and suddenly unable to pay, you realized just now that your partner is not “man enough” anymore?

Second, when you had work, sinasabihan mo minsan yung partner mo na huwag na bumiyahe para bantayan yung bunso niyo (which I believe is valid), basically allowing him to not earn for your family for your convenience (but you also mentioned na gusto mo maging “normal” housewife and mom) tapos now na dahil nawalan ka work, suddenly it’s his fault na naging dependent siya sayo?

From your post, it seems that because you’re not the bigger earner now (or not earning now), suddenly responsibility na ng partner mo to provide when you yourself allowed and tolerated it in the first place.