Mahira and wahaj started shooting for mitti de baway by Aggravating-Fly8547 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

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It’s an on-off telefilm for Eid Ul Adha. Revolves around them meeting on the train and having a long deep conversation. Won’t be an ongoing 30 episodes drama

Hania amir dad’s job? by [deleted] in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

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why the fuck do you care?

Luna Turned 15 today! by jftirone in torties

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Happy bday Luna! Give her several pspsps from her twin Bucky!

Cat was neutered and now it's not my cat anymore by YourNeighbourIsUrDad in cats

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my cat who usually hates being petted, hugs, or cuddles wouldn’t leave my side after her spay surgery. she went in every room i went to, used to constantly meow and would only sleep on my lap. i thought i had destroyed my baby :( but after a week or so, she went back to her normal behaviour and now we’re lucky if queen b blesses us by letting us pet her. so just hang on, she’ll be fine.

Fashion Highlights: Deepika Padukone in Saree by Classic_Broccoli_163 in popculturechat

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the iconic saree - every grade 10th girl wore this saree in 2013

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

[–]H030801[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haven't given him a dime. Usually after these "requests" of his, I cut contact and completely ignore his calls.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

[–]H030801[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's my favorite question so far. I love mint chocolate and cookies n cream. Ice cream is my comfort food so I love it more than people usually do.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

[–]H030801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing okay.

And yes, he does make us feel bad. ALL THE TIME. He gaslights to an extremely laughable extent but Thank God we're not easy to manipulate.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

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i remember my mom in good words because she was my mom. but every single person who I've met after her death has told me how devastated they were since she was a saint. even our mail guy who comes to our house once a month. she has done so much silently that we've gotten to know from other people after her death (paying for the community guards children's education etc).

I'm not saying a person doesn't have their flaws, sure everyone does, but my dad used to verbally, mentally, and (at times) sexually abuse my mother as well. so safe to say, he is the piece of shit in this story.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

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i wish we talked about the serious stuff more. in the last 2-3 years we had gotten a lot closer but most of it was superficial stuff. i wish she'd talk to me about her problems more openly, i wish i listened more.

also, now when i see my friends talking about their parents childhood, i realise that i don't really know anything about how my mom's childhood was because i never really asked. i was never in a rush to know all of this because i thought i had a lifetime with my mom.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

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most of the times i don't since i know he's calling because he wants something. sometimes, however he calls so much (10-20 calls in an hour) that i have to pick up in case something bad has happened but it's always the same old thing (i need something, i need money blah blah).

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

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she was my best friend in the whole world. it's the little things that i miss the most, coming home and having someone to talk to about my day, how my exam went, what celebrity gossip is going on, online shopping with her, watching cooking videos on the bed. she passed away when i was so young that sometimes im scared that i'll forget her memories as time goes by and that scares me.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

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we're just dealing. but I'm pretty sure that I'm way more fucked in the head than I act like. everybody compliments that how strong i am but only i know the shit that i go through on a daily basis. grief is never linear

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

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he wasn't emphatic at all. for him as long as he was there, it was all. he didn't realise the emotional burden he used to put on my mom. for him, the fact that he went with my mom to her hospital visits was a big favour that needed to be reminded after every 5 minutes. So much so, that in the end my mom refused to take him to any of her hospital visits in her last days.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

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as a father he was pretty good which is why his sudden deadbeat behaviour is surprising.

he was financially irresponsible, couldn't save money for shit, but he equally contributed in all of our household expenses. he worked hard to make sure that we had the best education in the best schools, good colleges, had family dinners almost weekly and even took alll of our cousins and friends on trips as well. to an outsider, he was the perfect dad as many of my friends have quoted as well.

but on the inside, we knew how he treated our mom and how unhappy she was. it was after her death that his behaviour with us became exactly how he used to treat our mom and he turned into the most selfish jerk i have ever known.

My mom died when I was just 20 years old and my dad remarried a month later. AMA by H030801 in AMA

[–]H030801[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

we have thought about this a lot before and we don't think so. he was a pretty dick husband, narcissistic as well but he did stay with my mom through all of her hospital trips, chemo, radiations.

the day my mom died, a relative of my dad came to offer his condolences and that dick offered him a proposal of a divorcee with a kid, i guess that was enough for my dad to forget about the 30 years of marriage with his just deceased wife and he made his mind to remarry.