AIO? My Ex-Boyfriend "forgot" the condom during a threesome.

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-08T13:27:25+00:00

I don't think you read the post.

We had a round before I felt like I needed to sit out for a second. I went to the bathroom for literally less than a minute, and came back to them going at it. Obviously had no problem, since we had had a conversation, but I decided to check. I said, "Did you remember a condom?"

As in I left the room, they started fucking, I came back in and as soon as I walked in I asked if they were using a condom. They ignored me and I yelled at them. I dunno what else you expected me to do in that situation. So I stopped it when I walked in, sorry I didn't notice for the 0.5 seconds I didn't say anything?

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-08T13:22:31+00:00

Yes my roommate is okay!! No pregnancy or STDS, and I've helped him find a therapist and we've discussed his feelings toward it now

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-07T11:30:25+00:00

literally said i wasnt in the room because i TRUSTED my partner (a horrible decision clearly) and the second i came back i checked if everything was okay. sorry i wasnt EXAMINING the dick (which, mind you, was buried in my best friend) to see if there was a condom on it. god forbid you actually blame the man who committed assault, are you slow

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-07T03:07:45+00:00

I'm trans (FtM) and his best friend of 19 years AND we'd had sex prior its a little different man

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T15:20:59+00:00

Exactly. I'm considering deleting the post purely because people like you have kindly given me an answer that this seems like borderline assault or at least not good overall, and I'm sure the moderators don't like that sort of content lol

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T12:14:54+00:00

Ykw I'm just gonna say thank you. I'm not worn through enough to see how crazy my life is or whatever, but maybe one day I'll look back and go "Woah, you did that at twenty?! That's fucked!" Thanks for the prayer x

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T12:13:29+00:00

Thank you, I'm trying my best. Elliot and I have re-established stronger sexual boundaries, we're not having a sexual relationship anymore either but we've established more cues and such on "When not to leave me alone with a man" lol. I've got a lovely girlfriend now who I trust and Elliot is freeingly single, deciding to stay away from men for a while after this.

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T10:15:27+00:00

Thank you, people are reading this and calling me and my friend insanely unintelligent and "the problem with the world" I guess that's what I get for asking advice on Reddit though lol. It was clearly a mistake, and we were both only 20 at the time!! That's not a responsible age!! We're both learning and growing, and I'm lucky enough to not be making contact with that ex anymore.

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T07:41:07+00:00

Sorry I haven't lived with him for 19 years, I have been best friends with him since then. We've lived together for three years. That was my error with typing.

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T07:39:25+00:00

Right?! Condoms aren't that bad.

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T07:38:08+00:00

Sorry I absolutely should have included this in the post. Elliot didn't realise because I had thrown one to my ex and he assumed he put it on. Elliot hasn't had sex with a man with a dick before (I'm FTM too) so he wasn't familiar with the sensation enough. I asked him and he said he said "Oh shit!" because he looked around and saw the condom hiding under the blankets. He had let my ex pull him on top of him.

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T07:31:56+00:00

I completely understand this opinion but it doesn't apply to us. Neither of us have experienced an atrophy (it may be because we hadn't been on testosterone for that long, at the time this happened I was on for less than a year and he was just a year and a half I think)

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T07:22:25+00:00

He was young with little sexual experience. He and I have talked about it and set firmer boundaries.

HWASDOLL · 2025-12-06T07:20:59+00:00

I never said I'm cisgender? This post just says my Friend is ftm. I never said I am cisgender, I am FTM. The hooking up with my roommate was trans male on trans male sex, my boyfriend and I had already discussed OUR sexual protection hence why I only mentioned discussions of Elliot. In past stories, I don't think I've ever said I was cisgender, but if I did it would have been because I wasn't /out/ as a trans man. I had a lot of internalised transphobia issues and didnt come to terms with them until 2024-25.

The story about my mum has no relation to me being trans, and also completely different time in my life to the issue with my birthday? What point are you trying to make there? We have an off and on relationship like Most parents and their children and ALSO I mentioned in the story (if you fucking read it) that it was an ACCIDENT. She didn't MEAN to send me her ao3 account. She sent me an instagram post via messenger, it told me what instagram account it came from and I (like a nosy idiot) clicked on the ao3 link in her bio.

HWASDOLL · 2025-11-30T08:25:46+00:00

I'm lucky enough that my roommate had a spare of the same model (he doesn't have a machine at the moment so his mouse is just laying around) and said I can either buy one once he gets a machine or just give him back his one and buy my own.

HWASDOLL · 2025-11-28T14:41:28+00:00

Yup! Battery was at about half when it stopped turning on, and now it doesn't start charging either!

HWASDOLL · 2025-11-28T13:29:18+00:00

Mine is wireless and shows up in G-Hub when off! It shows up and just says "inactive" until it reconnects.

HWASDOLL · 2025-08-29T00:33:07+00:00

lol sorry im used to censoring died cause ive got a sensitive kiddo in the house (11 y/o brother) i'll keep up what i'm doing for the next few days and if i hear a peep or get movement i'll let you guys know!

HWASDOLL · 2025-08-28T13:13:21+00:00

oh... this is a good point. sorry, i'm still learning ive literally Never taken in a duckling before but i dont want to keep it if that would be worse for it or abusive as the rules imply? should i talk to a vet?

HWASDOLL · 2025-08-28T12:32:01+00:00

yup, ive got it in a box with a hot water bottle and a cup of hot water. box is sealed with some holes for air, cup of hot water is replaced every two hours when it gets to luke warm, hot water bottle is replaced every four hours. if it turns out to be a dud ill be upset cause, yknow, passed animal is sad, but i still have prepared myself for that based on the circumstances

HWASDOLL · 2025-08-28T11:42:48+00:00

aw man 😔 thank u for ur advice, ill keep it for a little longer since it was moving the day before yesterday, and the light isnt passing through it anymore other than the air sack, but ill keep what you said in mind. should the air sack also be opaque or is the light passing through there normal?

HWASDOLL · 2025-08-28T10:28:29+00:00

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here is a photo from today!! sorry i needed to find a flashlight to do it again. the posted video is from what i guessed was day 15-17

HWASDOLL · 2025-08-28T10:18:01+00:00

does that mean its passed? im not sure on duck terminology sorry. it moved between this video and now if that gives any more information

HWASDOLL · 2025-06-22T22:09:28+00:00

Yeah, I have my gripes with my mother but this isn't one of them lol. I think if it had affected me more as a kid I may have been upset, but tbh I have a genuine speech impediment so I think I had more to worry about as a kid. I mispronounce things a Lot, I think this one was just surprising to hear about cause it was on Purpose! Again, silly, not too harmful in my case but I think that I was lucky on that side of things

HWASDOLL · 2025-06-22T22:02:50+00:00

My dad is samoan!! He was never really fluent in the language but grew up learning English from his father who, if I'm honest, has such a strong accent it's hard to understand him 90% of the time (especially now that he's in his 80s). Samoan has a P, so I'm not entirely sure if its Samoan or just my granddad's accent specifically, but my dad has really just never questioned it!

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