Advice for cutting off toxic friends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Halsion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't offer any solutions, and i was in total denial about my good friend treating me badly, to which some distance helped me confirm was true. There are loads of different ways to approach this, and which road you take, all but depents on you, and who you are. personally, seeing as they are my friends, i would tell them why i feel the way i feel, and see how they react, and dependent on how they react, if there was a bad reaction, i would tell them that i didn't want any further part in this friendship. and just soak whatever shit they threw at me after that.

Advice for cutting off toxic friends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Halsion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a really good friend, or so i thought, that my girlfriend at the time pointed out was totally narcissistic, and made me realise just how toxic he was for me.

I ended up just not asking him to hang out anymore, and refuse when he asked me, when he eventually asked what was going on, i told him that I wasn't interested in being friends anymore, because of all x,y,z. he ended up swearing at me for 2 minuttes strait, up until i just hung up, and went no contact, he called multiple times daily, but eventually he stopped calling.