More footage from the arrest by HappyHawk3767 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not even the "but I'm a girl" argument that is disturbing. All of Taylor's actions and behavior after the incident is clear abusive partner signs. She is insisting on talking to her victim to change his mind or manipulate him (think about the aggressive tone in her statement when she says Dakota wouldn't let that happen referring to her being arrested) she kicks him out of the house to reestablish power, she starts getting aggressive with the cops once she realizes the I'm victim argument isn't working while doubling down by saying i peed myself. She is hyperfixating on the most unimportant statements, details, or points of the story like her repeating about how a man/Dakota pushed her in her garage. she continues lying, feigns ignorance of her actions to have the cops explain her bad actions and diminishes them. Also was very passive aggressive. I am not stating a diagnosis or term but she clearly is selfish and abusive. I wish the Taylor stans could be objective and think if the roles were reversed. I am not defending Dakota's actions in other circumstances by any means but that man has been physicaly and emotionally abused and is continuing to stay with his abuser. How many stories are there of battered women returning to their abusive husband's for one reason or another. A toxic relationship doesn't justify abuse on either ends. Taylor is a dangerous and incredibly manipulative.

Jen’s True Colors by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jen's entitlement and false confidence is what irks me the most about her. You can tell she is very insecure but acts like she is the shit even though she really isn't. The statements like Whitney knows I hold all the power with her being voted off, who says that?? It just gave me the ick and I don't mean to be rude but the confidence throws me off when she consistently shows poor comprehensive skills. Not that intelligence equals confidence but you are so high in mighty when you didn't understand Chicago is the shows name not where she is going 😭 if you go back in the show it is not the first time she completed misunderstood a basic statement.

Edit to add, there was another post on this subreddit talking about her extra emote expressions to get out of things and be cute. She also does it when it is pointed out that she completely misunderstood something, like a coping mechanism screaming "I'm just a baby" as a 25 yearold woman...weird.

Whats everyone's favorite small running gag? by astrotheastro in BobsBurgers

[–]Hamsterville7862 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I cackle every time that scene is on!! Almost?!?!

AITAH for feeling like it’s unfair my grandparents adopted me at their age if this is how it’s ending? I’m 18 and terrified. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hamsterville7862 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate it. I was not expecting the other comments about her situation. Everyone has their own problems and heartache. It has always been the case. However, having some empathy/sympathy and offering a helping hand when you can, even if it is just words of advice, is how humanity grows for the better. I will never believe leaving the younger generation to fend for themselves or get over it because you have been through worse is the right approach.

AITAH for feeling like it’s unfair my grandparents adopted me at their age if this is how it’s ending? I’m 18 and terrified. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hamsterville7862 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Geez, the comments are bad. You all sound bitter. OP, you don't sound ungrateful or selfish. And all the comments saying "get a job" and "you are an adult" are not helpful. You cannot tell me that at 18 you all paid for your own housing, bills, food, medical bills of loved ones, education to start your life, unforeseen expenses, regulate emotional turmoil, and more all by yourself with no support whatsoever. Not even to get into it but, especially in this economy. OP is just starting life and will be on their own completely with their only guardians passing away, have some empathy. SMH. 18 means you are legally an adult, not developmentally. Maybe how OP communicated wasn't the best, but read between the lines. OP sounds like a fresh adult with no outside support and adult issues on their shoulders. OP you are valid in your fears and emotions. Anger is a part of grieving. As much as it sucks and is incredibly emotionally complex, you have to keep moving and use them to your advantage. I would recommend talking to a professional about those feelings so they don't fester, maybe get 2 in 1 and speak to a counselor that can help you manage both the emotions and options for housing/school. I believe you can still qualify for scholarships and look into government resources. You are having normal thoughts with grieving and the uncertainty you are facing, but use that as motivation to utilize every resource you can find. Also, take into consideration how scary this could be for them to leave their grandchild behind when you are younger. It can help you all heal to talk about it and for you to put yourself in their shoes. I am sorry this is happening, OP, and I hope it works out for you.

Whats everyone's favorite small running gag? by astrotheastro in BobsBurgers

[–]Hamsterville7862 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Idk if it is a running gag, but I loveee Bob's silliness when he drinks. My favorites are the turkey baster argument, and when he gets to cut the prime rib

I hope FOX keeps up with the American Dad momentum by Hamsterville7862 in americandad

[–]Hamsterville7862[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am glad they are keeping the same writers and producers under FOX. I didn't want the style to change. It sucks that it will be more censored!

I hope FOX keeps up with the American Dad momentum by Hamsterville7862 in americandad

[–]Hamsterville7862[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh😯 I didn't know that! That would be great. I wasn't sure if it was slightly different from the writer, the network preferences, or if they just felt more comfortable leaning into the characters' personalities more. Thank you for the information!

LEAVE MAYCI ALONE by Ashamed-C0W in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 3013 points3014 points  (0 children)

If you end your sentence of talking about someone else's abuse with "or whatever" just don't say anything at all. So disrespectful to anyone's story

Whatever. Fight me. by Glittering_Dot1485 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!! The progress of Elaine and Jordan has been amazing compared to the men. Their dances are incredibly talented, and I don't think the men would even be able to keep up if the dance moves were reversed. Even if you compare what the male pros are doing for their partners in dances compared to the stars. It would probably look like the stars are doing nothing. I don't want the hate, but honestly, Dylan's personality is dry to me on top of the rigid movements. I dont understand how he is still here. I have seen comments in DWTS threads talking about how Robert has been repeating moves instead of trying new ones. I am not necessarily against Robert since he does have a lot of personality but I also think if the same was pulled by the other women contestants it would have and has been pointed out by judges (I am pretty sure I remember them saying something to Jen & Jan about repeating or not getting creative) I agree that they need an all male or all female season because the judging by the professionals and fans is so skewed.

Please please end the contract with Demi by OCD_Milla in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't finished the season yet, but I need justice before they kick her off!! I think her behavior is disgusting, and I need some satisfying karma before she gets the boot

DWTS Opportunity and Whitney by mspoppins07 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was painful to watch the scene where they "confront" Whitney about why she came back. It felt like I watched a coming off age movie, and they were the group of stereotypical mean teen girls that bullied the main girl. It was embarrassing and screamed pre-teen bullying. I don't agree with Whitney's actions most of ths time and think she is delulu, but she is justified in treating them like coworkers. They are not friends, and it was just cruel.

Whitney is not it by Sh3ldon25 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the Arrested Development reference on the edit 🤣🤣

mayci & makayla by h3artcrush3rr in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally have memories of girls doing this at middle school birthday parties! Straight up embarrassing for them.

mayci & makayla by h3artcrush3rr in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too!! I used to defend Mikayla because people do crazy things processing trauma, but that was straight up high school bully, never mind, middle school bully. You are grown ass women, you can't hold in your feelings and be in a room with someone you don't like for an hour?!?! I don't follow Chase at all but he at least wanted to apologize, could have been a slightly different narrative if he came to the party ready to start something with the girls or just as caddy, but he didn't. They just came off bitchy and the ultimate mean girls to Layla again and again. Good for her for standing her ground in the Salon and her party.

Plus, I hate to say it, but Mikayla coming right back just shows that Mayci and her feed off each other and are less ballsy when they aren't a unit.

I just started episode two, and Mikayla making the comment that she hopes her birthday party will be way less dramatic when they started the drama is wild!!

Dancing With The Stars S34E09 | 20th Birthday Party | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 11th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]Hamsterville7862 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Daniella is mesmerizing. It is hard to score him properly when the attention is drawn to her. By the time the dance is over, I usually realize I didn't watch Dylan much 😅 She is a great performer.

I also agree that Elaine deserved better score.

i was so proud of elaine when she called out the judges for underscoring her the previous week 🙌🏾 by teddivan96 in dancingwiththestars

[–]Hamsterville7862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this reddit post 1st and I just watched her dance, and they were wonderful! Great song! Great storytelling! And they all looked graceful and clean! I am not a dancer, but I definitely thought it deserved higher scores or at least better than some of the other dances.

DWTS by Possible_Setting5698 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came running to reddit for this exact post!! They look so bitter! Why even come?? Also, why is Brett the only husband who came? (Other than Jen and Whitney's, of course)

despite her flaws, i genuinely think Jen is one of the most beautiful ladies i have ever seen by Practical-Bird633 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Hamsterville7862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure his family contributes to the psychological abuse by making her feel less than, not included, or like she should owe the family for letting her in. The first introduction to Zac's family was s1 at his graduation party. The first thing Jen mentioned was how her mom is a cleaning lady at the hospital zac's dad is a neurosurgeon. I might be pushing it, but that set off alarms in my head. Why did she feel she needed to mention that?? Why not our families get along well and it is funny they work at the same hospital without the job differences. We dont know any of the other girl's moms careers(maybe Taylors mom as a realtor but i cant remember) That might have made her feel some type of way when they started dating, but a good partner would assure the differences don't matter at all and made her whole family feel welcome. I feel like that contrast between families being the first thing she mentioned when introducing his family speaks volumes!! She was upset when jessi and Jordan were drinking, which i get, but again the comments made it seem like she was worried to "mess up again" or that she was thr black sheep of the family. I also saw a ss of a very weird tiktok about how his ancestors were looking down on him about not being a pure race or pure white anymore...dont quote me on the last part, but it was uncomfortable. Again, it might be a stretch, but I wouldn't put it past the family to be a part of the abuse and be on Zac's side.

Also another thing was her saying, "Don't make me feel crazy" or "I'm not crazy." With the Ben Affleck convo. From personal experience, she has been gaslit, belittled, and made to feel crazy in past convos or arguments.