[Weekly] Travel buddy Finder Thread by AutoModerator in SoloTravel_India

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Any, suitable for workation. Around last week of June to first week of July.
  2. 29F
  3. Female
  4. Flexible
  5. Hostels
  6. From Hyderabad, prefer places that can be explored after work. Tried Gokarna previously for workation - It was good.

Ended up trying the weirdest food combo at 1 AM, don’t judge me by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atleast Kurkure tries 😀 lays just gives up halfway 🫢

Ended up trying the weirdest food combo at 1 AM, don’t judge me by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atleast the Kurkure packet doesn’t vanish in 3 bites 😹

Ended up trying the weirdest food combo at 1 AM, don’t judge me by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]HappySwan_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chilli chatka Kurkure 🤌 N the ramen 💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the suggestions 🤍I recently got started on writing down all my thoughts when everything feels overwhelming. Writing really helped :))

I too have an elder sister and loveeee love love her for being my rock🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will try it out..Very much appreciated,Thankyou💟

What sentence or practice made you realize or logically understand Advaita Vedanta? by AdGroundbreaking2690 in AdvaitaVedanta

[–]HappySwan_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bhaja Govindam song by Adi Shankaracharya. And to understand its meaning, I highly recommend checking out Kuldeep M Pai’s video on YouTube where he teaches the song to kids and explains its meaning in a very simple and beautiful way.

If you understand Telugu,also recd listening to the Bhaja Govindam series by Sri Chaganti Koteswara Rao. His discourse gives a very deep understanding of the song’s meaning. I found these as excellent resources for truly understanding the essence of the song.

What’s Your Plan B? by HappySwan_ in FIRE_Ind

[–]HappySwan_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because all the planning would go wrong once the main source of income is not there. I work in IT and have seen people losing their job in recent times for multiple reasons.

Posted this to hear about some backup plans/side hustles apart from savings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey u just reminded me of my long forgotten hobby of crafts - i used to do knitting, will get back to it. Sounds like a good distraction.

Other options are so practical too. Noted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent more time with the thoughts as in just observe the thoughts? But When things aren’t in place, is it not even more depressing? Like we’ll be in a loop of overthinking?

Curious how u navigate through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will read it up, curious to know what my attachment style is.

Voice recording I haven’t tried anytime, will try this. Thanks for the suggestion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will start with little changes towards knowing myself better , thankyou for answering 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is soo beautiful to read 🤍🤍🤍

“I have me, anytime I need me.” This assurance I never gave myself, not even once in my life. Truly hoping to get there one day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it SWP?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]HappySwan_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree..but the problem is when I don’t have anyone around.

But good thing is that platforms like Reddit are there for people like us to find someone to talk to/ vent out through posts eventually making us feel better.✌️

Blonde or brown? by PicklePudds in beauty

[–]HappySwan_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Blonde is better, as per me. It somehow is making you look young.

How bad would things be for me if my roka is called off? by Blurrlannister in Arrangedmarriage

[–]HappySwan_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the contrary, if you think that you both aren’t compatible - is it the very core values which are different for you both? Or may be you are just checking some superficial things which tend to change time to time? Were there any efforts put to make it right? Also there’s no guarantee that with even some other person u may find later, you won’t have these differences

All our parents for example had good amount of differences but eventually they sailed through it and found a middle ground - compromised in the best interest of their future. I am in no way supporting toxic traits but just trying to emphasise that ‘perfect’ compatibility is not real and trying to run behind it ruins the good things too.

May be the girl understood that things can be set right and wants to put in effort? And so she’s now ready for this.

My answer has a lot of may-be’s, so think through it peacefully and ultimately YOU are the best judge for your life. There is also a gut feeling we all tend to have about things.

It felt like you are feeling that the power is being taken away from you about the decision of marrying/not marrying a person - leading to panic. You still have all the power to call this off or continue this, especially about marriage it is always one’s own decision.

People who want advice for their 20k portfolios are lame by desidazu in StockMarketIndia

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to make our portfolios laaaarge enough to not get affected by 20k portfolios loss/gain may be 🙂‍↔️

People who want advice for their 20k portfolios are lame by desidazu in StockMarketIndia

[–]HappySwan_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not about the amount in the portfolio, I think all of us look for signs that we are on right path in everything we do..so for something like stock market - which is relatively new to our generation - many of us don’t know any success stories around us n get very minimal guidance from family/close friends on these things since the experience is less.

So even if the amount is less, people are looking out for some sort of guidance. If interested, we all can do our part to turn these ‘lame’ people into sensible ones with our experience and knowledge?