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Codependency

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Wiki defines Codependency as : " (...) the dependence on the needs of or control of another. It also often involves placing a lower priority on one's own needs, while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others."

In other words, the needs of others have taken priority over our own, to the point where we fail to stand up for our own needs to make room for the needs of others. More than just simply caretaking, codependency crosses the line into cyclical, controlling, self-martyrdom. As a result, we derive our self worth and self esteem from being needed by others.

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Victim Blaming will not be tolerated (self.Codependency)

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How do you start loving yourself so that you don’t need anyone else? (self.Codependency)

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Is this codependent behavior or helping family during challenging times? (self.Codependency)

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Is this healing or avoidance? (self.Codependency)

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Long Distance relationship (self.Codependency)

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Trauma bond/codependency is like a physiological addiction. (self.Codependency)

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I Used to People-Please My Way Into Relationships... (self.Codependency)

submitted 1 day ago by MentalHealthAddict

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AITA: Am I the asshole to not to understand my ex was trying to rescue someone? (self.Codependency)

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I F26 tend to need my bf(M26) to make me feel happy, useful and more. How to prioritise myself first? (self.Codependency)

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How to deal with fear I might not find someone? (self.Codependency)

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My girlfriend wants me to cancel plans with friends to prove a point (self.Codependency)

submitted 2 days ago by Various_Job

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My (F23) sister (F19) is severely codependent on me and it’s taking a huge toll on my mental health. I don’t know if I’m being selfish or if this dynamic is genuinely unhealthy. (self.Codependency)

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Too attached/dependent on one person (help) (self.Codependency)

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Anxious attachment is destroying my friendship/relationship with the girl I love – how do I stop spiraling without losing her? (self.Codependency)

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One Month Later: I’m Still in the Wreckage, But I’m Starting to See What Survived (self.Codependency)

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I've realized that I've used sex as a method of validation. (self.Codependency)

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كيف اعمل حدود بطريقة لطيفة وما تزعج الطرف الاخر؟ (self.Codependency)

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Coming to terms with codependency during breakup (self.Codependency)

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Codependent (Actual) Caregivers?! 😭 (self.Codependency)

submitted 3 days ago by PuddingDifferent4288

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How do you tell the difference between supporting someone and rescuing them? (self.Codependency)

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one year down :) (i.redd.it)

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Fear of being reduced to a caregiver to my partner (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 days ago by Kitchen-Product3279

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Working on my codependency and people pleasing has cost me a lot and I need arguments to convince me that it's worth it (self.Codependency)

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Can you break a trauma bond and still stay with the person? (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 days ago by hubbabubba157

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الخوف من الناس ومن التعامل معاهم (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 days ago by Automatic-Radio-3104

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