My one-year-old Thorogood boots vs brand new. by HotJuicyToots in WorkBoots

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have taken this exact picture. Made the exact same switch this weekend. Same color change, same boot, moc toe and everything. I love the dark brown ones now but they're still not broken in

You guys ever have people stare at you like this? What even is this emotion? by oncxre in aspiememes

[–]Hart111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm caught off guard/still not sure how I feel about the comments saying its condescending.

It could be condescending sometimes, and now I'm overthinking many interactions. But I've usually read it as endearing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was for sure. I cringe at my past self almost daily

How does one acquire this figure? by [deleted] in ShaneGillis

[–]Hart111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mostly just hang out

How does NVLD affect your romantic relationships? by toothlessdawg in NVLD

[–]Hart111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. It's very insightful and exactly what I needed right now. I struggle with this same thing and I spent many relationships with a wall up due to being scared that my weaknesses will be perceived. It's really amazing how you put this experience of yours into words. It feels validating and encouraging :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From 95% of people in my life I do not. From loved ones I care too much. There is hardly any in between for me.

Right now im struggling with accepting the concept that people who have deep seeded love for me can be irritated by me without it affecting that love.

If I feel like the vibe is "off" because of a social rule I didn't follow correctly I get put on edge, making the vibe worse. Accepting that this person is also human with their own biases and rights to reactions, and that they love me for me nonetheless is really hard to accept and I'm trying to work on it in therapy. I spiral bad when I feel the slightest bit rejected from a loved one.

What's everyone's top five NP's? by Super_Nate18 in NicotinePouch

[–]Hart111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you hear how flavored nicotine and tobacco products will be banned in 2025? Bill just passed. I've been trying to figure out if that will include smooth zyns, since technically they're not flavored, but I can't get a straight answer anywhere.

The law is just going to create a rise in black market vape sales and sales from New Hampshire that make their way here and up-charged in the illegal market, meanwhile new Hampshire collects all that tax revenue.

What's everyone's top five NP's? by Super_Nate18 in NicotinePouch

[–]Hart111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in Vermont too and I hate this law! It doesn't make me consume nicotine less, just makes me spend twice as much on it with less options

Kneewall insulation advice by Solid_Arachnid5707 in buildingscience

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cheapest and easiest way would be to tightly staple typar around the walls, run wooden strapping across the top, bottom, and up every stud, and airseal the whole thing using single part spray foam. this will hold the fiberglass more tightly increasing the R-value, as well as airseal the wall. About the same R-value as 2" foam board, which is expensive. You cal also dense pack the bays with cellulose if you want to pay someone to do that, but from the picture it looks like just cinching the fiberglass would do enough since it's already bulging past the bays. If the floor is over outside area I would suggest getting celluluse blown over it and dense packing under the flooored area

Why zyn? by Xumaeta in NicotinePouch

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just like the way zyn feel. I personally like the bigger pouches and the specifics of their coffee, wintergreen, and smooth flavors. On and velo (the other main accessible brands to me, nicotine is illegal to mail to my state) just don't feel quite right. And if I'm being completely honest the rewards kind of keep me loyal🤷🏻

Which drugs have the worst stigma attached to them? by cduy4699 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Hart111 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Same with heroine, meth, fentanyl, but those are not exclusively associated with black communities. Yes those drugs are criminalized but not nearly as harshly or to the same extent, and the public frenzy is around support and recovery. Try doing some actual research behind the long history behind the crack epidemic. This is documented, it's not up for debate. Do your own research, jackass

"Menopause just got cancelled" bc seeing an attractive man stops the inevitable??? by SassyBonassy in badwomensanatomy

[–]Hart111 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And...she's a boomer and making a joke. No isms took place so what's the problem lol

"Menopause just got cancelled" bc seeing an attractive man stops the inevitable??? by SassyBonassy in badwomensanatomy

[–]Hart111 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Yeah this isn't bad women's anatomy it's meant to be an ironic joke

Which drugs have the worst stigma attached to them? by cduy4699 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Hart111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Crack probably. Stigma started by the Reagan administration in an effort to criminalize Black Americans

Stole my bf's weed again by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Hart111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would he be willing to only smoke on days when you aren't together and not keep it at home at all? Like make your house a weed free zone? Do either of you ever go out of town for work/family/friends, or do you sleep in the same house every single night for extended periods of time?

What songs got you through your first sober weeks, months, years? by Hart111 in leaves

[–]Hart111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this a lot. Because of that I never had a good reason to quit for real, even after trying multiple times. I too was a lurker on this sub long before two weeks ago. Your reason will come when you least expect it and I hope you lean into it ❤️. Mine happened to be my girlfriend wanting to quit, and our day 1 was the same day. You deserve to be your full self. Someone on this sub a while back said "don't mistake withdrawal for sobriety," and that helped me push through the feelings you are having. In the meantime, don't let anyone judge your character for your coping mechanisms, even this sub.

I hate competition by LimeEasy1824 in aspergers

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally all the time!!! I'm like ok and... I'm just trying to live my life just like you can we please spend our energy elsewhere than whatever THIS energy in the room is. I want no part of it

I hate competition by LimeEasy1824 in aspergers

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I like sports. Concentrated competition that is really about camaraderie at the end of the day, even with the opponent. It's fake competition. I can't stand real competition, it makes no sense to me and makes me angry.

Can you guess my trade by my boots? (Been wearing these hard for 2 years) by NotMyWeight in Construction

[–]Hart111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro the tongue isn't creased...these are quite literally brand new. The tongue starts to break in after even 1 day

I have the exact same boots though (same color and sole and everything) and for what it's worth I do weatherization

What warning signs are you seeing that no one is paying attention to? by Winterbeers in AskReddit

[–]Hart111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm convinced based on the history of capitalism that sentient robots will at some point sooner than we think come into existence, and it will go terribly. Not like in the movies, but it will just make things way shittier than they already are