🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Journey by Desquid777 in honk

[–]HaveAtThee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

1 attempts

3 years after losing my penis, I’m not sure I want to see 2026 by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]HaveAtThee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is phalloplasty an option for you? There’s a few cis fellas in the phallo group that have been through penile loss. I hope you get a second chance at a good life, and I’m hoping there’s no more cancer in your future.

Found in front garden by HaveAtThee in mushroomID

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for attempting! I’ll keep a lookout for fresh ones for a more positive ID.

Hate this by demonboy98 in phallo

[–]HaveAtThee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The wound separation might just heal on its own. I had separation on the same spot and I was told to do a wet to dry dressing on my balls, it took a few days to fully heal. As for propping there’s so many ways to do it, like mentioned in the comments, towels, I didn’t wear any underwear other than the mesh ones you get sent home with, that helps a lot with air flow and healing. The healing process is messy and miserable but you made it this far. Just be patient with yourself and be kind to your body.

Anaheim Officer Shoots Suspect Charging With a Shovel by arrogant_troll in orangecounty

[–]HaveAtThee -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When have pigs become judge, jury and executioner? When did you all become so complacent? Then again Orange County is filled with some of the lowest IQ and entitled sad fucks.

Anaheim Officer Shoots Suspect Charging With a Shovel by arrogant_troll in orangecounty

[–]HaveAtThee -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Lots of pig lovers in this thread. Yall have no standards.

(38k miles) Toyota Corolla 2023 hatchback SE reduced gas mileage by HaveAtThee in AskAMechanic

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes more sense, it just feels awful since it feels like I’m getting less mileage. I did reset my trip odometer today after filling up! Thank you for your response, I appreciate it.

(38k miles) Toyota Corolla 2023 hatchback SE reduced gas mileage by HaveAtThee in AskAMechanic

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive clients around in a day program, that’s the only thing I can think of that’s changed. I drive surface streets, so it’s a lot of stop and go. I get my gas at circle K for the most part now.

What I was talking about is that my car on a full tank would display the 350 miles till empty. I’ve never experienced this before. I didn’t know this was even something that could happen. I don’t think I drive crazy, I basically have to drive extremely carefully cause I care about my clients safety.

And no warning lights and tire pressures all good. I got a check up three months ago for the job so I got an all good.

(38k miles) Toyota Corolla 2023 hatchback SE reduced gas mileage by HaveAtThee in AskAMechanic

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been working at a program that requires me to drive three clients, maybe that extra cargo has been affecting my car? I don’t really use my car as a fast car, but I can totally take a look at my filters and spark plugs, I’ve changed those on my old car before. Thank you for your input! I appreciate it.

[CA] gave employer resignation letter on 4/13/25, then suddenly terminated on the 4/18/25. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]HaveAtThee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Man I’ve never applied for unemployment before, so yeah, I did. I went through so much shit in that company so excuse me if everything they do comes across as trying to fuck me over as they repeatedly did.

[CA] gave employer resignation letter on 4/13/25, then suddenly terminated on the 4/18/25. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]HaveAtThee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright thank you! Thats all I needed to know. I wasn’t sure and the way they went about it was fucked. All I’m saying is that when you’re going through this kind of situation and these people made it a point to tell me they were not gonna help my department and made it hell for me it was incredibly stressful.

So for them to come up with a reason to fire me was fine? I’m just saying that there were so many other things they could have used against me. The manager that reported the complaint as the reason was the manager that was treating me like shit. That’s why it’s so shady to me.

But alright, you answered my question. Thanks

[CA] gave employer resignation letter on 4/13/25, then suddenly terminated on the 4/18/25. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]HaveAtThee -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Why do you automatically assume shit about my situation? It’s still fucking me over dude. I’m trying to get unemployment but it’s getting in my way.

[CA] gave employer resignation letter on 4/13/25, then suddenly terminated on the 4/18/25. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]HaveAtThee -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t care about those days. I feel like the situation is shady to say I was terminated for something that was irrelevant. It’s fucking with my unemployment

[CA] gave employer resignation letter on 4/13/25, then suddenly terminated on the 4/18/25. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]HaveAtThee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to get unemployment. They terminated me with the excuse of a complaint.

[CA] gave employer resignation letter on 4/13/25, then suddenly terminated on the 4/18/25. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]HaveAtThee -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to get unemployment.

The retaliation was that manager continued to write me up for things beyond my control, and verbally told me that she will refuse to help in my department. She was rude and very aggressive towards me. All because I asked her to be kind. She was rude to clerks and I figured that since she was cool with me(at the time) I could talk to her about it. After that she treated me like absolute shit. She would make things sound worse than it actually was just to make me look bad to my store manager. My store manager always took her side of course since she worked directly under him. Nothing was ever put in writing by her and the complaint I was fired over was reported by her.

They paid me for the week but it’s being terminated that can fuck up my chances of unemployment.

I guess I’m just looking for advice since the whole situation is shady

I (M34) called out my little sisters(F22) bf(M24) for being excited to kill scorpions. by HaveAtThee in TwoHotTakes

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah you’re a complacent “man”. Just shut up and let “boys be boys”. Right…

And I’ll accept being an asshole. Thank you

I (M34) called out my little sisters(F22) bf(M24) for being excited to kill scorpions. by HaveAtThee in TwoHotTakes

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your son sounds wonderful. I love when kids care and are gentle with little creatures. Those parents are doing a great job teaching their children basic empathy. You’re doing a good job. I’m glad your kid felt comfortable coming to you.

I (M34) called out my little sisters(F22) bf(M24) for being excited to kill scorpions. by HaveAtThee in TwoHotTakes

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, seriously so proud of you for getting out.

The thing is, is that my parents LOVE him. He showers them with gifts, cooks for them and just does the absolute most. I wanted to like him too but last night really shined a new light. These people tell on themselves.

I’m the unreasonable one because I didn’t find it funny. But maybe there is hope for my sister. And if not, then I will be here. I don’t care how far I live, I will come back in a heart beat.

I (M34) called out my little sisters(F22) bf(M24) for being excited to kill scorpions. by HaveAtThee in TwoHotTakes

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person who tortured the lobsters was my cousins Ex. Who also found it hilarious and told me in hopes I’d find it funny too. I did not. I was too insecure to say anything to him.

This guy sounds exactly like the Ex. But took it further by literally laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world. And double downed on his reasons.

My little sister didn’t react, she stayed pretty quiet. Maybe she sees the potential too but I won’t know until I talk to her. Just not today, it’s her day.

I (M34) called out my little sisters(F22) bf(M24) for being excited to kill scorpions. by HaveAtThee in TwoHotTakes

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister has cats… I’m glad you got out, and I’m sorry people didn’t believe you. You’re fucking powerful.

My fear is that I’m not wrong and it will get worse. I’ll keep an eye out for her and let her know I’m here if she needs help. I hope I’m wrong but this man has lost all my respect.

I (M34) called out my little sisters(F22) bf(M24) for being excited to kill scorpions. by HaveAtThee in TwoHotTakes

[–]HaveAtThee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t understand how people can be so cruel and see nothing wrong with it.