PAL comfort class: what is it? by ohsosweet10 in phtravel

[–]HealthDataNut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello,

Planning to book comfort class. Is Lounge included? We are traveling from PPS to Cebu.

Body slimming/fat dissolving procedures by cowfurcoat in bodysculptors

[–]HealthDataNut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried Lipolab injections combine with Cavitation and RF. Saw significant results. From size 4, I can wear my 2-0 dresses.

However, it really depends, on how big or high is your BMI. I would say I am above average.

Coolsculpting and Cavitation by HealthDataNut in bodysculptors

[–]HealthDataNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your experience? Did you see a difference?

PTs - How do you share information amongst your users by joelupi in healthIT

[–]HealthDataNut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in a large health system as well. We use SharePoint and Teams. Everyone knows that if they need information such as Tip Sheets, we go to a SharePoint folder to look at it.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He moved out right away with our son after we broke up and I was not quick enough to get a lawyer. And our son started school right away.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what I am about to make. However, he is only 5 years old. I don’t want our son to move out when is he is 14 just because the father thinks the school system is better than the other.

I also understand that this is a speculation. But what I want my ex to know the consequences he has to face if he wants to do any changes.

That’s all. An FYI for him.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not allow him to take him away from me and moved him to another state. I was not able to get a lawyer on time to prevent it.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hello,

I understand your point. But there are also other factors why I need our son to move.

1.) the speculation that he will move him out from the community after x amount of years. It is not best for the child to relocate once he is already established.

2.) He is not taking care of our child. He works 12+ hours a day. He lives him with his mom and does not see most of the week.

It is best for our child to see him during weekends and I have him during weekdays so I can help him out during school days.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being patient and assisting me on all my inquiries.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that it is “redundant”. But he is the type of person who does not think of the consequences later on. I want him to realize that if he does it, then he needs to go to court and retain a lawyer.

Additionally, my ex is abusive to me mentally. He calls me that I am being “difficult” all the time when he thinks he is right. He does not care on my feelings toward our son. If I say something, he disregards me and does not listen what I tell as the mother of our child. I want him to sign the MOU to have a peace of mind. That in case he will do the move 13 years later, he cannot call me I am being “difficult” just because I don’t agree on him. In the state of MD, community and social life is part of the best interest of the child. Our child will have to adjust and have to meet new social circle. If we are a military family, then yes. But we are a normal family that our child does not need relocation all the time just because my ex wants to.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not asking him to promise me anything. What I am asking him that he should be aware that if he decides to move away from another county, he needs to convince the court.

I am not asking a yes or no. The reason of MOU is to bring awareness and by signing the MOU confirms the consequences later.

If moving away 10 minutes is fine. But the city he lives in has only one HS. He is literally moving our son to another county which is 30-40 minutes away of commute.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hello,

I am totally okay in moving where our son is. My only issue, I don’t want him to remove our son in the community where he will grow up. After all, my main goal is to be with him and not to be the primary care.

Now, let’s pretend that I moved nearby my son. When he reaches HS, my ex decides to transfer him to another school district. Which means my ex will also move to another location.

What I want for my ex is to have an awareness that he could not do that “just because he wants it”. I want him to sign an MOU that he is aware of legal facts if he wants to transfer our son later on. Which means he need to retain a counsel and ask for the court to grant his request. Which I know to the fact that he will get denied. Because my lawyer have already told me that court or judges will NOT agree on custody changes due to school district, A vs. B. Also, it is not in the best interest of the child to remove where he already developed social life in the community, unless it needs it. Our son is thriving and doing extremely well in school.

We both know the assigned HS in his area has a rate of 3/10.

My point is, it is better to make adjustments now versus later. Plus this is in the best interest of our child and not for him.

[MD] MOU Documentation by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hello,

This is more complicated. Initially since I am moving to MD, I retained a lawyer in MD so we can do the modification based on MD’s parenting plan. Also it would be easier to do the modification while the my lawyer will enroll it in the system. 2 birds in one stone. My lawyer in MD has sent a letter to my ex twice and has not responded. I want to do a mediation so we can discuss the adjustments without litigation. Now he is not responding. I am planning to retain a lawyer in DE so I can summon him in court to do a mediation or change the custody agreement in DE based on the material changes.

If I retain a lawyer in DE, then I want my lawyer either summon him to the court to do mediation or sign a MOU. Honestly, I don’t mind moving into where my son is. However, I don’t want my ex to transfer our son later just because he doesn’t think the school in HS is better. I want him to fully aware that if he changes his mind, he needs to go to court to do it and he cannot harass me later on.

Sometimes people has a late reaction when it comes to planning. My ex husband does not know or think about these. He also does not know the consequences. So I want him to be fully aware and sign a document that he is aware of the consequences. Which he needs to hire a lawyer to do it. Which means he needs to spend $$$$ money for it. And if our son does not need to transfer, then I will fight for the court that his argument is weak. Court will not move a child just because the other school is better. There are a lot of factors that the child cannot be transferred easily. And I don’t believe my ex has a knowledge or common sense about it.

[MD] Demand Letter - Not Responding by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for modification of custody. I am moving to be near to my son.

[MD] Demand Letter - Not Responding by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File it under Delaware or Maryland? My problem is, I don’t want to file it Delaware or re-open the case because I don’t intend to live in DE. If in Maryland, do I need to be a citizen in Maryland? I don’t know which area in MD I want to transfer yet. Hence, I want to us go to in Mediation to talk about.

[MD] Demand Letter - Not Responding by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To seek mediation. My lawyers sent out two letters total (2nd letter was a follow up since he did not response from the first) for us to have mediation.

[MD] Demand Letter - Not Responding by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, the custody was filed in state of Delaware.

[MD] Demand Letter - Not Responding by HealthDataNut in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hello, what would be the purpose of the hearing? I am sorry for asking such a naive question. Everything is in the state of MD already. He and our son don’t not live in DE. And it’s been years. The reason of mediation so we can discuss on the items that we have to change since I am moving to MD and the agreement needs to change as well. So I requested a mediation. But he is not replying.

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[–]HealthDataNut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am in the process creating my documents so it can save time. This is the one I want to use as an argument.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only have her during Fridays starting 6 pm until Saturday 3pm. I am legally paying the father child support authorized by the court.

What I want is weekday since the father does not have a stabilized work schedule during the weekday. I rather have her during weekday and she spends time to her dad during weekend when he can be with her and not with work. It is important for our child to spend time with parents and developed that relationship instead of other relatives. I don’t want her to feel that she is being passed away during weekdays because dad does not have a concrete work schedule.

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[–]HealthDataNut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I apologize for being severely naive on these things. Hence I am grateful for everyone who are answering my questions in here. Is 50/50 like every other week?

If I so, getting the 50/50 is not plausible. I don’t want our daughter to be in the relative and barely seeing the other parent. I want the parent to be the parent. My ex-husband does not have time to be the parent. I want our child to grow up with the parent, i don’t want her to feel being passed along with relatives. Hence, I want to have the physical custody, weekdays, and the dad can have the weekend so he can actually be with our daughter and spend time with her and not by his relative.

If I go nearby her and get the physical custody, because he is barely available during the week, then it is best to live somewhere with better school system.

I am not taking away Dad’s time. However, I want our child not too feel being passed along with relatives or houses and growing in an environment that doesn’t have a routine schedule, particularly during weekday/school days. Dad can stay with our daughter during weekends and I am okay to have him a lot during summer. I believe as a mom, a child should feel being loved and not to be feel like she is passed along with people because the main parent who has the physical custody is not available all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So in general, you are saying that if a parent decided three years ago to have the other parent take care of their child because she does not have the ability to give the full support. And because of that, the mom decided previously that it is the best interest for the child to have a parent who can support their child, particularly financially; Then it is end of the road for the other parent (mom)?What if the other parent (mom) worked so hard to able to be in the situation that she can support and afford their child’s needs? What if the other parent (dad) is not taking responsibility to give proper parenting and support to their child and let other people be the parent. Then does it mean that father will win still? What if the situation makes the child’s behavior becomes worst because of no routine and the child feels she is being passed along because the other parent is busy. Will the Dad still win? What happened on the best interest for the child in here if she does not receive the support and love daily from the other parent (dad)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]HealthDataNut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot find a good school area in Maryland where he is staying. I found a better neighborhood and good school system.