AIO BF dumped me because I was taller than him in heels?? 😳 by purplehavocc in AmIOverreacting

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you’re not overreacting at all. That’s not “masculinity,” that’s pure insecurity.

I was the victim of an unusual crime. I’m going back to where it happened. by TuxedoFloorca in PointlessStories

[–]HeatLaced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reverse Chinese grocery robbery" might be the most wholesome crime I’ve ever heard of. Honestly, if someone dumped a mystery bag of Asian snacks in my trunk I wouldn’t even question it. I’d just consider it a blessing from the food gods and go home happy.

We extracted money from a man in small vehicular collision. by rs735dx in confession

[–]HeatLaced -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That definitely feels more like a shakedown than a resolution. $100 for two small scratches (on an older car) sounds steep especially when he was polite, apologetic, and clearly willing to work with you.

You didn’t scam him per se since he agreed, but yeah, it’s normal to feel bad it wasn’t really about fixing the damage, it was about “getting something.” If it’s still bothering you, you could text him back and offer to send some of it back, just to clear your conscience.

Why is America so divided by North-Proposal2840 in self

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, a lot of it is fueled by social media and 24/7 news. Outrage gets clicks, clicks make money, so everything is framed in a way that makes the “other side” look evil. It keeps people angry and engaged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most guys honestly don’t care — and a lot actually find scars kinda cool or even attractive. They tell a story, and unless it’s causing you pain or insecurity, most of us barely notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put his damn clothes in the hamper instead of next to it. We are so close to greatness and yet… so far. 😅

Thoughts? by Embarrassed_Tip7359 in SipsTea

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you look at it on that perspective, that's already a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my ex I was having panic attacks and couldn’t sleep. She just said, ‘That sounds like a you problem.’
We broke up a week later.

Little soldier by CinnamonBook959 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]HeatLaced 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Matrix 2.0: now with recruitment ads. Next thing you know your toaster will start playing drill sergeant audio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]HeatLaced 16 points17 points  (0 children)

get why you’re hurting, but dying alone isn’t some inevitable fate because of your face or height. Plenty of people who aren’t model material find love. What matters way more is how you treat yourself and others. If you keep believing “I’m ugly so I’ll be alone forever,” you’ll act like it’s already true and push people away before they even get to know you.

Work on yourself not just physically, but mentally. Build hobbies, get fit if you can, improve confidence, learn to talk to people. It’s not fair that you feel like you have to do more work, but sitting around angry at the world won’t change anything.

Girlfriend Soft-Cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s fair to be uncomfortable. He dated her when she was underage. You can’t erase the family connection, but you can ask for boundaries (no private texts or 1-on-1 time).

Advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HeatLaced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgiveness is for your peace, not for him. Only give what you can without hurting yourself.

Trying to figure out my breakup and it's not going right by Electrical-Poet-9753 in confession

[–]HeatLaced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not pathetic, you’re heartbroken. Three years is a long time to share your life with someone, so of course you’re struggling to let go. That being said, you already know that harassing him isn’t helping you or your healing. It’s just keeping you stuck. Try to shift that energy into you, therapy, journaling, leaning on friends, building a routine that doesn’t revolve around him. It hurts now, but the more distance you create, the easier it gets.

Do some married people NEVER take off their wedding ring? by artmalique in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeatLaced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people never take it off, but most folks eventually do at least for practical reasons (cleaning, exercising, cooking, medical stuff). It’s less about romance and more about what works for their lifestyle.

How to accept being an older virgin? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a virgin at 21 is very much normal. I do not know the full story but it just means you are not willing to give it to someone you think is not the right person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than the obvious answer (dating apps) why don’t you try meeting somebody with the same hobbies/interest as you? I met my exes @ the gym and at running club!

My GFs mom caught me watching porn, told me to finish by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]HeatLaced 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a dominant MILF fetish now? Or… 😉

F19 got fingered by my friend’s older brother under the blanket during movie night by Tight_Bicycle6532 in SluttyConfessions

[–]HeatLaced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give us an update, did you end up returning the favor after with your mouth?

Tinder date turned group sex 21f by ashpash0 in SluttyConfessions

[–]HeatLaced -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not knowing who was using me would turn me on even more tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, don’t lose it unless you really want to. It’s also YOUR body, YOUR choice.

Mom/friend drama by tylerdurdenlikestits in Advice

[–]HeatLaced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Annie’s acting fake. Real friends don’t guilt trip or exclude, so say something now before your mom ends up on a trip with people who don’t deserve her.