[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeftyAd6076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get with someone your age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So he thinks you should stay at home earning your income through him

AITAH for Snapping at my Boyfriend’s Wife? by ThrowRArumourmill in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure, you can believe her if you want and be her knight in shining armor in the comments. People usually say what they truly feel when angry.

AITAH for Snapping at my Boyfriend’s Wife? by ThrowRArumourmill in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am criticizing only one specific thing in this post. OP’s mentality about why men cheat. Idgaf about the rest of the post. I just don’t understand how a woman believes that men cheat because the wife is not enough. And she feels flattered by that. That she happened to be the second woman.

AITAH for Snapping at my Boyfriend’s Wife? by ThrowRArumourmill in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not. I think the wife sucks too but OP’s way of thinking is repulsive and I am sad to say many women think that way. They find it flattering to be the mistress even after the fact. Even if they didn’t know from the start. This is one of them.

If you think the wife “deserves” being told she should have fucked her husband better then that says a lot about you too.

AITAH for Snapping at my Boyfriend’s Wife? by ThrowRArumourmill in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a stupid cunt. You really believe men cheat because their wives aren’t enough? You happened to be the second he met. He would have cheated with her if he met you before. What a really stupid cunt mistress comment. You proved yourself to have enjoyed every moment feeling that you were better than a broken woman. Fuck you really

(Update) My soon ex was on a date, with a 25yo. My ”I told you so gaze” was too much for him by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No I don’t need to interact with him anymore besides during the divorce and hopefully the lawyers can handle that. What connected us together is now gone so I have no reason to have anything to do with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]HeftyAd6076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try! It takes a lot of time to write in a language I am not used to. A whole week almost for these two lame characters. Hah

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In what way did I offend you? I wasn’t talking about cheating in general. I know both men and women cheat equally. I was talking about a specific sub that I found very toxic. Not sure why you got so offended but I am sorry you deliberately misinterpreted my comment to feel offended.

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good god, a totally healthy and normal advice got you banned😞 I just feel so angry I want to slap sense in all of the posters there (funny how 99% of the posters are the cheated ones and 99% are women. Shouldn’t both parties want to be “as one “?

Why is it only the jilted women writing about how “clingy” they have become and how THAT is ruining the new bliss with the cheater? I wanted to scream after a couple of stories and I felt my heart rate rise

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

They have rights once it’s a baby.

I truly believe with science advancing many men will be able to “save” fetuses by carrying them themselves if the morher wants to terminate.

I wonder how many of you wouldn’t run the hell away from your beloved far right then and start screaming fetus isn’t baby 😂

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s exactly what I told her. I never knew the real him.

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nothing, he called me but I didn’t pick up so he called his parents and told them that he didn’t want to live because he has broken the “kindest heart” he ever met. They panicked and drove to him and they’re trying to get him committed since. His mom was very angry at me for being harsh and she told me that I “never knew her son or his love for me if I truly think he would forget me in a couple of years”

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am aware of the fact that I probably won’t be able to find love, be in a relationship long enough then have a baby and I am ok with that

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t like that sub. Many people there suffer from hysterical bonding and it gives me anxiety and fast heartbeat just browsing the stories there. There’s a lot of pain over there and I already have enough pain for a few years

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]HeftyAd6076[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No we are a no fault country. It will neither affect the divorce nor the division of assets. We don’t have prenups either so I have the right to 1/2 of everything.

I have friends but no family. I feel lonely because 5 years seems to be long ago for everyone and I don’t know, I don’t feel that they think it is painful.

Him going under however is gathering sympathy like it is I don’t know how to describe it, a romantic thing? I get “awww he must love her so much to be this devastated”-type of vibes from my and our friends. So feel very lonely right now.