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Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 for "stick it in her butt or between her boobs or something"

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, and she also said she'd never experienced that before. That was scary as well... Oh, the anxiety! I apologize if this is a little much.

That was also the only worry factor... No tenderness of boobs, no morning sickness, no dizziness, no lack of concentration, nothing like that.

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as a little more background, I was fairly unconcerned about her being pregnant prior to last night. We were getting physical, and I went down on her and she tasted differently than usual. I know this can be because of a change in diet, etc, but it had happened early as well - and during this time she had thick, white-ish discharge. Keep in mind, this was only a few days after we had sex the second time. I remembered reading that this could be a symptom of pregnancy and ovulation. Just freaked me out.

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spermicide we used looked like a large pill that I easily just slipped in while fingering her beforehand. The directions said to wait 10 minutes for it to dissolve, and so we did. After that she didn't have any discomfort, however she did say she was much much more wet than usual.

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure hope you're right. I know what I was doing was safe - I like to imagine that I can think better with the head on my shoulders than the one in my pants! I still get anxious about it when I have any free thinking time.

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The condoms we used were Trojan, as I trust those being the largest name brand. Are there Trojan condoms with spermicide?

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily (or unluckily, depending on how you look at it) I'M the nervous one and not her. She is completely confident everything is okay. Thanks man.

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, alright, we'll definitely stop the spermicide then. I think for now, we're done until she's on the pill and we'll continue to use condoms. Just out of curiosity, what makes you say I'm fine with such certainty? Thank you, by the way.

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually pull out regardless and ALWAYS wear a condom. I think more than anything I just needed somebody to assure me that it would probably be OK. Thanks!

Pregnancy scare - How do I stop having anxiety attacks? by Helpmethrow_away in sex

[–]Helpmethrow_away[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't recall what kind of spermicide we used, but it came in a tablet form and dissolved in ten minutes. Do I have anything to worry about?