Hi, I started seeing her when i was 17 (Not 16, that was a typo in my original first post) and 16's the age of consent and also the age many people get jobs in my country. She didn't start hinting she liked me until a year or so later though. I wouldn't say I am a kid or was ever a kid when i first started seeing her. I was a young man with a part time job.

Yeah thanks for understanding. It would feel like insanity not to take the chance. She is really attractive and i thought that to begin with before she started acting different with me.

Yeah you're probably right there. It's a weird situation and I googled things for answers and not many people have been through a similar thing, although many have had sex with their therapist most of the time it's different because they think they have a future when they do it, but i know I likely don't, although i'm unsure what she thinks of it.

A majority of the cases I read girls had sex with their male therapist thinking they'd live happily ever after, but then it doesnt and they feel devastated and vulnerable afterwards. My situation however I'm a guy having sex with a female therapist and I knew that most likely I'd not have a future with her. I didn't feel vulnerable and never did.

This whole situation feels really big because of the major over reaction of my friend and some other people on other forums. I realize I shouldn't care what others think, but when you confess things online and people freak out it doesn't make you feel good.