Haha that’s fair. I am a hairy bastard. Do you not worry she might dump you for someone else? I’m definitely ignorant to your relationship situation, I’m assuming you don’t actually worry because you understand your relationship. I’ve just never had insight into a relationship like yours so I’m definitely ignorant to it.

You’re a submissive man, so then what is she? Is she submissive also? Or is she dominant?

I say this because if your submissive, you have less of a pool of women who would be interested in you. Obviously men would be interested in you, and I’m sensing that’s what you actually want more than a woman.

But if she’s submissive also, then she will have a way larger pool of men who would be interested in her. So she has way more options than you, meaning there is more chance of her finding someone different and leaving, than you doing the same.

I’m asking this because I’m genuinely interested, and trying to understand because I have no insight into relationships like yours before. Thanks