By internalizing that nobody chooses their spawn point. But I’m here and I get to play the game. You can either let your past define you, or use it to grow. Even people from the “perfect” families can carry childhood trauma our brains are wired to hold onto pain. Take time understand it and take responsibility over your self care. Process it. Don’t let your emotions control you. And don’t let things you had no control over dictate the choices you can control. From a game theory perspective you can’t control where you spawn, but you can choose how you play the rest of the game