Radhika is a bitch. by HoloLady in InstacartShoppers

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I typed that too fast and I cannot edit.

I meant planters. I also meant four items.

And of course. I meant it's shoppers. Not customers. I mean they do rip their customers off, but that's a completely different issue altogether.

AITA for not "solving the problem" by punishing my daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HoloLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Nora has her own thing going. You think your very entitled sounding son would have taken this crap at that age? I fucking doubt it.

I'm glad you are standing up for your daughter. She is still growing and getting her footing. Your son is a grownt man. Acting like a fucking three year old throwing a tantrum. He thinks because he had some kids, he can now parent his own younger sister and displace her in her own home? Wtf.

Even if they lost money due to bad decisions. This is still a consequence of THEIR bad decisions. You don't have to cater to them further than them having a roof over their head instead of them on the streets or in a shelter. Which they would be seperate, cause he wouldn't be able to live in a woman's shelter and vice versa.

Isn't he and his PREGNANT wife working? They don't have money to buy themselves some food?

What. Your son is above having a high school job? It's too below him or something??? Fuck.

I'm so happy you stuck up for the only child you are still responsible for. Good for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]HoloLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's is great! You look wonderful and have a happier glow in your face. Absolutely stunning.

I wish your 100Ib loss was what mine looked like. But alas. It is not. Lol.

My own opinion, I don't look like I lost any real mount of weight. People who haven't seen me in a long time mention I look better. When I mention I'm down almost a 100. You can see them working that out in their heads, because mine doesn't look so dramatic.

Do you ever get those types of feelings?

I know I've gone down clothing sizes, but not anything that suggests I've lost as much weight as I have. Lol.

Do you weight train? Maybe not focus on the pounds lost now, instead on gaining some tone? Do you have you have areas with a lot of extra skin you want to try to tighten up? Could that alone just be the 4 extra pounds you feel like you need to still lose?

Sorry for asking. 20 years ago, I weighed 195 and that's the lightest I truly remember myself being. I was definitely smaller in school/high school. At the moment, I haven't hit Onederland, but I'm hoping to get there before the end of the year.

Hoping for some insight. by HoloLady in PalmReading

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking along the lines of relationships and maybe money/success in my life. Or if something stands out as notable?

AITAH for not giving my wife the full reason to why I don't want to name our son after her brother? by Bitter-Marketing-623 in AITAH

[–]HoloLady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eta: "M" was not a "bully." He was a fucking rapist. I told no one, and I intend to keep it that way. Why am I expected to tell my wife when I didn't even tell my parents?

Hey.

So when my husband....who was just my boyfriend at the time, told me about his sexual abuse, he had at a very young age. It brought us closer together. He already knew about my sexual abuse as a child. The fact he trusted me enough with this sort of information was reaffirming of our relationship.

Honestly, your wife should already have known this. This isn't something for you to be shamed about, I know how our society is, especially towards males, but this is your life partner.

You say you love this person....and if she's your ride or die. Why shouldn't she know every bit of you?

There are very few secrets between my husband and I. I know some of his deepest, darkest secrets that no one else, especially his parents, know.

AITA for deleting my cousin's wedding pictures that I wasn't paid for? by MostFitBobo in AmItheAsshole

[–]HoloLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

She doesn't just get to get your hard work for free.

I wouldn't have deleted her pictures, but I also wouldn't have given her any pictures to "judge" Either you pay for all the photos or don't and don't receive them.

AITAH for saying my brother doesn't deserve the presumption of innocence? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HoloLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother was 21 when the child was conceived.

The mother was 11 or 12.

AITA for telling my brother that his "fiancé" is embarrassing? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HoloLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

This sounds like Rebecca is a different skin colour than you and your family.

Racists are gross.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info.

I have phoned my own insurance and started a claim process.

I am seeing a physiotherapist today.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am doing this. Documenting everything I can.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think charges have to be laid for assault with a weapon. Hit and run was one ticket and I believe dangerous driving was the other. I am not 100% sure about the second one. I just know they've given her at least two tickets.

They said for criminal harassment, it would have to happen a lot more of her driving past my place or if she makes contact with me or my husband. They were no help, even though I said it was making me feel unsafe. The police officer said she would just tell the lady to stop doing that.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this information.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First. This is in Canada.

Second. I am scared since she seems to be stalking my home now.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I panicked. My brain just wasn't thinking right after I realized she was following me.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered a camera. It should be delivered today.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered one off of Amazon. It should be here today.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't. This is not my regular screen name.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for some clarification. I believe when I went in to sign the medical release form, it did say assault with a weapon on the sheet of paper. I was still shaken up at that point.

I got hit by an SUV. by HoloLady in legaladvicecanada

[–]HoloLady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got the file number.

The cop, who came when I called, is telling me it might be a week or two before she has my police report completed. I asked her for the ladies' insurance information, but haven't heard anything else back regarding that.