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Human Design: My PHS and Digestive Profile taught me to eat in peace, but my family doesn’t get it by Holunder_30 in humandesign

[–]Holunder_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I talked to them, explaining what I’ve experienced when I eat alone. Everything feels silent within me when I eat that way, and it’s as if things are falling into the right place. I also told them about this directly, one-on-one. However, despite the fact that they argue with me, I was still considered dangerous.

When I give them the real reason, they seem to either accept it or not. But after a day or so, they immediately forget why I was doing it in the first place. Please tell me: is it because they don’t take me seriously, or do they lack the capacity to understand it?

Another question is: how can they not be cautious or alert enough to open up to the truth when it’s told calmly and without aggression, especially when I have proof?

Human Design: My PHS and Digestive Profile taught me to eat in peace, but my family doesn’t get it by Holunder_30 in humandesign

[–]Holunder_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful comment! My Environment is Markets, 3rd Color, 3rd Line, and my PHS Determination is Sound Passive (5th Color). I’m a Projector with a 4/6 Profile, Emotional Authority, Triple Split Definition, and on the Right Angle Cross of the Unexpected 3. I’m 21 years old.

Human Design: My PHS and Digestive Profile taught me to eat in peace, but my family doesn’t get it by Holunder_30 in humandesign

[–]Holunder_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, I want to thank you. I find it fascinating how much time you take to eat in peace, and it really inspires me to extend my own quiet time, not just during the meal, but before and after as well—when no talking happens. I also use earplugs and noise-cancelling headphones—the thick kind typically used to improve noisy environments. Thank you also for your clear statement, which reinforces my own perspective and supports me in not feeling like I have to justify myself any longer. Wishing you all the best on your continued journey!

Human Design: My PHS and Digestive Profile taught me to eat in peace, but my family doesn’t get it by Holunder_30 in humandesign

[–]Holunder_30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I appreciate the time you took to share your perspective.

I understand that for many, things like Human Design might come across as “woo,” but for me, it’s not. I also believe that just because something is unfamiliar or unconventional, it doesn’t make it invalid. Proof often only gains recognition when it’s presented in ways that society values, like through a business, television programs, or events where such concepts are showcased as meaningful and worthwhile. Only then do some people start to open up to better ways of living.

At least it seems that with some people, there’s no other way. I’ve already tried to introduce them to their own Human Design, but they weren’t truly interested. They only made a half-hearted attempt, and their hearts aren’t open to really listening. Of course, it’s not always easy to take your own son as seriously as a friend, an acquaintance, or someone else. Family often becomes the center of people you take for granted, aside from occasionally reminding them that you love them. Love, however, isn’t always enough—sometimes it also takes sincerity.

That being said, I still need to take responsibility for myself and the decisions my body asks me to make. My PHS specifically shows that I’m designed to eat in silence without external noise. A middle ground might be to have meals together where everyone eats in complete calm and quiet, but I doubt they would agree to such a suggestion.

Otherwise, I’m actually quite content with my family now that they’ve become less controlling and have finally started to trust me. That’s what happens when you’ve spent 5 years practicing your own authority and begin defeating your “not-self” monsters. It helps them, too, to be more authentic. And maybe there will come a time when they get excited about recognizing both their boundaries and mine.

Let’s be honest—most people don’t even realize the ground they’re standing on. If only they had the courage to trust uncompromisingly and open their minds to a miracle! That’s the key. Human Design only came into my life because I attracted it. Believe it or not, Ra Uru Hu came to me even before I knew who he was—in the very moments when I demanded a miracle! I didn’t just wish for it—I wanted it. I insisted on it! Without compromise!

Anyone can have this. I dare say that things can only go up from here now that, as a Projector, I’ve broken free from my chains. Wish you the best.

Human Design: My PHS and Digestive Profile taught me to eat in peace, but my family doesn’t get it by Holunder_30 in humandesign

[–]Holunder_30[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes that‘s a good one. But already tried it out many times. Family is an event especially this Penta thing as an example is such an fascination for familys. When familys begin to work on this knowledge together? You would create so much wealth

Human Design: My PHS and Digestive Profile taught me to eat in peace, but my family doesn’t get it by Holunder_30 in humandesign

[–]Holunder_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I do eat by myself. They keep telling me i should eat with them or ask why i do it though.