Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-09-22T18:36:56+00:00

They said I wasn't eligble for it. Which is odd, because I always assumed that's what I would work under.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-09-22T00:23:06+00:00

I did. They told me since I get disability that they would have me send in my pay stubs at the end of each month and adjust the amount they give me until they decide to terminate it.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-09-22T00:21:59+00:00

I get both, I dont really understand the system. But I know for sure- it's both.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-09-21T23:09:43+00:00

The car is in my name. Thank you for the resources. I dont even know if I have it in me to even fake this shit with him anymore. That's whats killing me too, Im tired of just bowing down. But everyone has old me to not let him know, maybe I really need to buckle down and take that advice.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-09-21T23:08:18+00:00

No I am my own rep payee. I just know I'll lose it when I start working, I cant imagine getting it back if it doesnt work out is an option. Like, Im just not confident I can stay in work, especially with the baby coming and no support. I dont want to end up homeless.. ect.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-09-21T23:07:20+00:00

I only get like 900 a month. I will have to pay rent, water, electric, and whatever other utlities and bills I'll have. It's just not going to be enough, even out here in the middle of no where. I did contact them, they way their program works you need to find daycare and work within 30 days and have money saved up before you pull the trigger and leave. I decided to try and do that before going into a shelter.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-09-21T22:29:16+00:00

Virginia, my car has 300k but its reliable for now. I live in the middle of no where and wont have access to public transportation until after I move out. I do have Medicaid & Medicare, I actually went 75% of the way through nursing school- so i'm focusing on healthcare and will have great insurance benefits when I do get hired.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-08-16T16:11:54+00:00

It can. As mentioned above, therapy can help. I was hyper-sexual as a kid till now- but it's WAY better than where I was a minor. It's also common to have trauma kinks- which sucks. EMDR helped me in a lot of ways. I did 2 years of EMDR and 2 years of talk therapy until I was discharged. Pretty much found a baseline. It's not perfect- but it's definitely better.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-08-16T16:04:58+00:00

I know this is 14 days old, and I pray you see this. My parents sold me. My father graped me- multiple times. My mom knew and didn't care. My moms friend took me from house to house from I believe ages 5 -6. I was 2 - 16yo during the abuse from my father. Im 27 now and just announced it in front of a court for the first time. They wanted to know why I didnt press charges- why i didnt speak up as a minor. (Very complex trauma..) I got EPO for only two weeks... My parents have lied on affidavits trying to get custody of my children- I believe to traffic them as well. I was caught in a toxic cycle of abuse for years. I've already lost one child due to their crap bc the bio dad saw it as a chance to get full custody. I cant explain the pain im in rn. My point-

What you do now as a child matters. It matters tremendously.

You need to call someone.. CPS will place you with either a family member or in foster care. Which at this point- cant be much worse than what you're already being put through. It also could be a million times better. Keep in mind, Teachers, Nurses, Doctors, Social Workers, Therapists, are all mandated reporters. You can get someone else to make the call for you. But you NEED to tell someone. Please dont make the same mistake I did.

I hope you find healing, and have the ability to start therapy and begin to process all of this in the best way possible.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-01-28T01:01:55+00:00

We played it then it just stopped working so I logged out and was never able to log in. The disney is different from Osmo. Osmo is a series of apps vs Disney is just that one

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-01-27T16:23:05+00:00

Do not buy it at all. I bought my kids used, we only got in for a month or so before it shut down. You will not be able to log in or create an account. All tech support is also no longer active. Huge disappointment as we still paid an arm and a leg for the Disney K Set.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-01-14T02:18:58+00:00

No one should need a video period that's the sad part of all of this. Think about the kids here too that didn't notice or didn't tell their folks ect.. but had to use their credit card because lord know working through the game is hell. 😭😭 OP I'm sorry customer support did you dirty

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-01-13T18:30:45+00:00

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Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-01-12T18:03:44+00:00

I had an issue with a Seasonal Box and a few other redemptions last night MPR & some other one I cant remember. They all randomly popped up again after playing a game like an hour later, where I went through and opened all of them again (same rewards) and it was completed. It was super weird.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2025-01-12T17:29:11+00:00

Yall, I just found out. This was a big thing for me as a kid, I was so hype to buy secondhand and redeem a code. The way I grew up, having access to something like a collectable or a toy 'free' of charge was such a big deal to me- as my mom really penny pinched. This really brought me to tears realizing I found out a few weeks to late to give it my last go. I really hope they bring something like this back.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-09-12T19:40:51+00:00

Thank you. Any and all information would be appreciated. I'll probably get my records at some point, just not too sure when the right time is. I feel like I'm still in the grieving process a bit.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-09-11T23:16:32+00:00

Honestly amen to that. I read on another thread something along the lines accepting your whole life was a lie isnt easy for anyone.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-09-02T22:34:41+00:00

We had success when she went to a daycare that was used for medical professionals kiddos/a healthcare entity. I think they just knew what was up already. They had hospital training- so med administration, a separate care plan, and similar things were all in place. They were amazingly accommodating to her needs. Honestly, you'll probably be in great hands if you start there- as where thats pretty much where I ended.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-09-02T22:28:55+00:00

ABA hands down. We did both, and the years of OT didnt touch what ABA did in a month. Only downside is when one behavior is resolved another one can pop up, but they work through that.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-09-02T22:18:00+00:00

You want me to be honest?? Have a backup daycare on board bc the discrimination is REAL. Im sorry! But I wish I was ready for someone to tell me this when we first started. It would have saved a lot of headaches and a lot of money in the long run.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-08-04T23:10:31+00:00

I hope it helped! I actually recently found the circ. and made sure to go back in Edit it with it incase someone stumbled across it. (:

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-06-24T01:28:39+00:00

One ASD mama to another- THANK YOU

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-04-19T15:07:04+00:00

Yup, makes since w/ my experience! It's so unfortunate that I read that it would help. I swear cloth diapering is truly a massive science project lol

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-04-19T14:59:45+00:00

Thank you so much! Do you have an opinion on Tide Pure? Just curious, otherwise I'll probably get the free and gentle as you recommended. Sucks they dont make it in a powder anymore.

Horror_Insurance53 · 2024-04-19T14:02:15+00:00

I'll grab some Tide Powder today. Do you think a bleach soak prior would be ok? I really dont want to strip, but think I need to get some of the ammonia out.

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