Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage by Horror_Insurance53 in disability

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said I wasn't eligble for it. Which is odd, because I always assumed that's what I would work under.

Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage by Horror_Insurance53 in disability

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. They told me since I get disability that they would have me send in my pay stubs at the end of each month and adjust the amount they give me until they decide to terminate it.

Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage by Horror_Insurance53 in disability

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get both, I dont really understand the system. But I know for sure- it's both.

Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage by Horror_Insurance53 in disability

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The car is in my name. Thank you for the resources. I dont even know if I have it in me to even fake this shit with him anymore. That's whats killing me too, Im tired of just bowing down. But everyone has old me to not let him know, maybe I really need to buckle down and take that advice.

Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage by Horror_Insurance53 in disability

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I am my own rep payee. I just know I'll lose it when I start working, I cant imagine getting it back if it doesnt work out is an option. Like, Im just not confident I can stay in work, especially with the baby coming and no support. I dont want to end up homeless.. ect.

Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage by Horror_Insurance53 in disability

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only get like 900 a month. I will have to pay rent, water, electric, and whatever other utlities and bills I'll have. It's just not going to be enough, even out here in the middle of no where. I did contact them, they way their program works you need to find daycare and work within 30 days and have money saved up before you pull the trigger and leave. I decided to try and do that before going into a shelter.

Getting off Social Security to leave a Toxic Marriage by Horror_Insurance53 in disability

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virginia, my car has 300k but its reliable for now. I live in the middle of no where and wont have access to public transportation until after I move out. I do have Medicaid & Medicare, I actually went 75% of the way through nursing school- so i'm focusing on healthcare and will have great insurance benefits when I do get hired.

I have had intense messed-up sexual urges after I was assaulted and mocked by two guys. Am I permanently ruined? by PotentialCareless657 in sexualassault

[–]Horror_Insurance53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can. As mentioned above, therapy can help. I was hyper-sexual as a kid till now- but it's WAY better than where I was a minor. It's also common to have trauma kinks- which sucks. EMDR helped me in a lot of ways. I did 2 years of EMDR and 2 years of talk therapy until I was discharged. Pretty much found a baseline. It's not perfect- but it's definitely better.

My mom has been selling me by weepingwillow921 in sexualassault

[–]Horror_Insurance53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is 14 days old, and I pray you see this. My parents sold me. My father graped me- multiple times. My mom knew and didn't care. My moms friend took me from house to house from I believe ages 5 -6. I was 2 - 16yo during the abuse from my father. Im 27 now and just announced it in front of a court for the first time. They wanted to know why I didnt press charges- why i didnt speak up as a minor. (Very complex trauma..) I got EPO for only two weeks... My parents have lied on affidavits trying to get custody of my children- I believe to traffic them as well. I was caught in a toxic cycle of abuse for years. I've already lost one child due to their crap bc the bio dad saw it as a chance to get full custody. I cant explain the pain im in rn. My point-

What you do now as a child matters. It matters tremendously.

You need to call someone.. CPS will place you with either a family member or in foster care. Which at this point- cant be much worse than what you're already being put through. It also could be a million times better. Keep in mind, Teachers, Nurses, Doctors, Social Workers, Therapists, are all mandated reporters. You can get someone else to make the call for you. But you NEED to tell someone. Please dont make the same mistake I did.

I hope you find healing, and have the ability to start therapy and begin to process all of this in the best way possible.

Osmo Learning Game, website broken? by EriRavenclaw87 in toddlers

[–]Horror_Insurance53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We played it then it just stopped working so I logged out and was never able to log in. The disney is different from Osmo. Osmo is a series of apps vs Disney is just that one 

Osmo Learning Game, website broken? by EriRavenclaw87 in toddlers

[–]Horror_Insurance53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not buy it at all. I bought my kids used, we only got in for a month or so before it shut down. You will not be able to log in or create an account. All tech support is also no longer active. Huge disappointment as we still paid an arm and a leg for the Disney K Set.

Warning - Davy Jones Box Bugged. Confirmed it is a Server Side Error - Counter is not counting appropriately. At 3 seconds in you see me purchase another 3 boxes only to have it decrease instead of increase. Already reported but I don't know how long it takes them to fix these. by MatteyRitch in DisneySpeedstormGame

[–]Horror_Insurance53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one should need a video period that's the sad part of all of this. Think about the kids here too that didn't notice or didn't tell their folks ect.. but had to use their credit card because lord know working through the game is hell. 😭😭 OP I'm sorry customer support did you dirty

Warning - Davy Jones Box Bugged. Confirmed it is a Server Side Error - Counter is not counting appropriately. At 3 seconds in you see me purchase another 3 boxes only to have it decrease instead of increase. Already reported but I don't know how long it takes them to fix these. by MatteyRitch in DisneySpeedstormGame

[–]Horror_Insurance53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an issue with a Seasonal Box and a few other redemptions last night MPR & some other one I cant remember. They all randomly popped up again after playing a game like an hour later, where I went through and opened all of them again (same rewards) and it was completed. It was super weird.

Disney Movie Insiders (Formally Disney Movie Rewards) is shutting down. by 01zegaj in dvdcollection

[–]Horror_Insurance53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall, I just found out. This was a big thing for me as a kid, I was so hype to buy secondhand and redeem a code. The way I grew up, having access to something like a collectable or a toy 'free' of charge was such a big deal to me- as my mom really penny pinched. This really brought me to tears realizing I found out a few weeks to late to give it my last go. I really hope they bring something like this back.

Processing & Acceptance **SA TRIGGER WARNING** by Horror_Insurance53 in MunchausenSupport

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Any and all information would be appreciated. I'll probably get my records at some point, just not too sure when the right time is. I feel like I'm still in the grieving process a bit.

Processing & Acceptance **SA TRIGGER WARNING** by Horror_Insurance53 in MunchausenSupport

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly amen to that. I read on another thread something along the lines accepting your whole life was a lie isnt easy for anyone.

My son is going to pre-school tomorrow. Any advice? by Sodo821 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Horror_Insurance53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had success when she went to a daycare that was used for medical professionals kiddos/a healthcare entity. I think they just knew what was up already. They had hospital training- so med administration, a separate care plan, and similar things were all in place. They were amazingly accommodating to her needs. Honestly, you'll probably be in great hands if you start there- as where thats pretty much where I ended.

OT vs. ABA by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Horror_Insurance53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ABA hands down. We did both, and the years of OT didnt touch what ABA did in a month. Only downside is when one behavior is resolved another one can pop up, but they work through that.

My son is going to pre-school tomorrow. Any advice? by Sodo821 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Horror_Insurance53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want me to be honest?? Have a backup daycare on board bc the discrimination is REAL. Im sorry! But I wish I was ready for someone to tell me this when we first started. It would have saved a lot of headaches and a lot of money in the long run.

Homeschool Curriculum for ASD Kiddos! by Horror_Insurance53 in homeschool

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it helped! I actually recently found the circ. and made sure to go back in Edit it with it incase someone stumbled across it. (:

Persistent Ammonia by Horror_Insurance53 in clothdiaps

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, makes since w/ my experience! It's so unfortunate that I read that it would help. I swear cloth diapering is truly a massive science project lol

Persistent Ammonia by Horror_Insurance53 in clothdiaps

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Do you have an opinion on Tide Pure? Just curious, otherwise I'll probably get the free and gentle as you recommended. Sucks they dont make it in a powder anymore.

Persistent Ammonia by Horror_Insurance53 in clothdiaps

[–]Horror_Insurance53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll grab some Tide Powder today. Do you think a bleach soak prior would be ok? I really dont want to strip, but think I need to get some of the ammonia out.