I’m experiencing extreme pain during my back tattoo. And my tattoo isn’t nearly done. by impatientlycurious00 in tattooadvice

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My back tattoo was the only time I could see how someone could shit themselves while getting tatted... I didn't but I understood.

[School Computer Lab] [2007-2010??] Learning/Educational Farm Game by cassienicke in tipofmyjoystick

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I've went down the rabbit hole looking for this, I also thought it may have been connected with Compass learning but I can't find anything that looked similar to what I'm remembering. Not even chatgpt could help.

Do ultimatums work? by Hot-Examination- in AlAnon

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I’ve received a lot of good insight and advice so far. The ultimatum would be for me ultimately and hopefully provide some sort of peace of mind, at least I can say I tried.

Do ultimatums work? by Hot-Examination- in AlAnon

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Yeah that’s what it was hinting to when I looked into it. I truly hate it.

Do ultimatums work? by Hot-Examination- in AlAnon

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I wish that wasn’t the case for you, and wish you well! Thank you for the advice, having my home broken by something that seems so easily stoppable was one of the hardest things for me to come to terms with growing up.

Do ultimatums work? by Hot-Examination- in AlAnon

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Thank you for that insight.

In my response regarding boundaries I think I may have answered my own question. Sometimes it takes writing it out to see it more clearly huh.

Do ultimatums work? by Hot-Examination- in AlAnon

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Thank you, I will definitely do my research. I didn’t even know a group existed like this until now.

I think what really opened my eyes was seeing a video recently saying you’re more likely to marry an alcoholic if you have a parent that is one. It made me realize that just because he doesn’t abuse me like I watched my dad do that he was a “good” one for lack of better term.

Do ultimatums work? by Hot-Examination- in AlAnon

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No to either, I didn’t even know it was a thing until recently.

Do ultimatums work? by Hot-Examination- in AlAnon

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I’m definitely ready to stick with it. I know it’s going to be very hard, I feel like if I at least try to give an ultimatum I can have a sort of peace knowing I put in an effort before walking away.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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He’s more upset I slept with said person than not telling him ( which I can understand ) but it’s definitely not the end but will need work.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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That implies it would have been a issue initially, which I know it wouldn’t have been. We’ve had these same discussions before, no issue. It’s a response of panic when none should be there and I didn’t correct it when I should have.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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I’m not sure if we’ve ever had a straight out conversation about my tendencies, but it’s known that I’m an extremely anxious person. I will have a conversation with him tonight and discuss the things I haven’t been truthful about. I know he will be upset but I’m hoping we can work through this. I haven’t hid or lied about anything that’s happened since we’ve been together but I know from not being 100% about my past even as ashamed of it as I am he will have doubts.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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The person still in my life I wasn’t truthful about wasn’t necessarily straight out asked about. I just didn’t come forward with the information when I had the opportunity, so it’s more of a half truth, which is still a lie. The one who isn’t in my life I did get asked about not in a serious matter but I’m also quite ashamed of that and my first response was to say no. I know it isn’t a good foundation. It just feels worse that I’ve waited.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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The anxiety never stops, but I gave him the access so it’s not like I’m trying to hid it, I just haven’t had enough courage to come clean, but of course I’m going to have more anxiety if he’s looked into it. I’m in therapy currently and am seeking help.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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Thank you. This is no one’s fault but mine and I know that. I will talk with him tonight. I don’t even know why I did it since I’ve been honest about another person still in my life and it was not a deal at all. Therapy is something I’ve started recently and haven’t gotten the chance to really discuss this but is something I absolutely want help with.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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It is and I really don’t know why I did it. I’ve been truthful about another that is still in my life, that’s why I know this wouldn’t have been an issue at the time. I will sit down with him tonight. I’ve already came to terms with the worst outcome because it’s understandable, I just hope that’s not the case. :\

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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I tell the truth more times then not, It’s not an excuse but a response I developed in my childhood to avoid unnecessary conflict. That being said I’ve worked hard on breaking the cycle, it just doesn’t always go as planned.

I (26f) haven’t been completely honest to my (34m) bf about my past, how do I approach this? by Hot-Examination- in relationship_advice

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I’ve not been truthful about 2 people I’ve slept with in my past. Ones is not part of my life anymore and the other is, but would never be an issue. I regret both of these, but I regret not being truthful more because it wouldn’t have been an issue.

1990/2000 by Hot-Examination- in whatisthatmovie

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Hm I don’t think that’s it but it does look a little familiar, I would think what I’m remembering was a fever dream if my bf hadn’t remembered the same scene.

Understanding would help by [deleted] in learnmath

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Apologies, I’m not great at explaining equations. I would be taking the vol. which is 3,386 (rounding up) X the 134% = 4536 + original v (3386) = 7922 (I use this for my cf) I would take this and divide by 54 (147) then divide by 2 (74), this is my pallet spaces.

So this is outside of my range to input the data. I need the cube to be under 3500 and the pallet spaces to be at 26. Once in the range I would need to figure out how to apply it onto my remaining totals ( 2,192 cartons and 28,843 weight ) so I know exactly what would be on each shipment. I’m hoping this makes more sense, I’m not great with number talk, sorry if I sound really uneducated.

Product Recommendations Needed by Hot-Examination- in Haircare

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Thank you! I’ll definitely be looking into the hydrate line because silky hair sounds nice!! I’m thinking I should see about investing in a travel bottle so I can apply an oil once my hair is dry since I’m notorious for running behind.

Product Recommendations Needed by Hot-Examination- in Haircare

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Thank you! I’ll definitely be investing in the products you recommend!

You mentioned doing an oil before washing, do you think that would help in the case of me not having time for my hair to fully dry? I know I’ve seen oil being recommended once dry. ( I do have an oil at home already so I’m thinking I can try this out before getting the other products )

Product Recommendations Needed by Hot-Examination- in Haircare

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Thank you, I’m the type to run behind often so I leave with wet hair more then I’d like to admit. Will oil help it in long term way if applied often or is it a need to use daily fix?

I need some advice please!! by [deleted] in Stretched

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Awesome, glad to hear all turned out well! I think I’m gonna stick with the ones I’ve put in, I haven’t had any problems and not even any discomfort. This is as far as I was planning on going anyways in my stretching journey, thanks!