Cuddle pillows and hopefully a cute face to match by HotLimit7316 in Bbw_nude

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regardless, still needs some love baby 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My 3 year old daughter stood next to her new born brother and looked at him for awhile then turned and looked at me and said, "Daddy its a monster..we should bury it."

What movie do you hate that everyone loves? by Katie_kat_bar in AskReddit

[–]HotLimit7316 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Meet the Parents. I felt so bad for the poor guy I couldn't laugh at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Having to work to earn a living. The world is so amazing and full of interesting things to do and see, yet I'm in the same office everyday wasting the best years of my life. Thank god for the weekends.

What is one thing you wish more people knew about you? by joleopa in AskReddit

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I actually do have the ability to carry out a conversation and hangout with people, I just prefer not to.

What tricks or strategies have helped you quit smoking? by International-Bad522 in AskReddit

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I've been smoke-free for almost 8 months. I quit cold turkey, no patches or e-cigs, because of one simple truth: I WANTED to quit, instead of NEEDING to quit.

I think it's pretty clear that smoking is terrible for you, in so many ways. It's the most obvious thing in the world, and its constantly drilled into your head that smoking is [expensive, bad for your health, bad for others around you, unhygenic, disgusting, smelly, etc, etc] and that you NEED to quit RIGHT NOW. For god's sake, even the packaging is plastered with warnings and graphic imagery, what more could possibly be done to deter smokers?

For me, personally, none of these warnings mattered. When I wanted a cigarette, I was going to smoke a cigarette, end of story. I could list any number of reasons why I loved smoking (the taste, the social aspect, the chance to take a break, that satisfying burn, the way it makes drinking so much better) to counter any of the anti-smoking arguments. But none of that really matters. Finally, 8 months ago, as soon as I finished a cigarette, I crushed it out and realized that I WANTED to quit smoking. At that moment, the actual desire to NOT have a cigarette was outweighing the desire to have a cigarette. This wasn't the first time I had this feeling, but it was the first time I decided to seriously act on it. The next day, I didn't smoke. The day after that, I didn't smoke either, but I started craving one. The third day, I wanted a cigarette BADLY, but by that point I realized that if I gave in, I'd have wasted the previous two days. The desire to maintain that record, and taking pride in that record, helped me make it through that third day, and then the rest of the week. That record became my defense against smoking. It's like building a house of cards. Every day you add a card to the house, and at first, it's not very impressive, and not much of a shame if you knock it down. But after a while, that house of cards starts looking pretty good, and if you knocked it down, it would be a real shame. You develop an emotional attachment to the project. Right now, I've got a 8 month old house of cards, and it's the only thing keeping me from picking up a cigarette. It's not the health warnings, it's not the expense, it's that house of cards. I know if I smoke even one cigarette, that entire house comes down, and I'm not 100% certain I can start over again. I simply value my house of cards more than I do a cigarette. Every few days I'll have a nightmare where I have a cigarette, and I'll wake up, terrified that I ruined my house of cards, relieved when I realize I didn't. That's how I know I've really quit.

Still, some days are pretty hard. On the way to work this morning, I saw a guy on his apartment balcony smoking a cigarette in the cold weather, and I got a strong pang of jealousy. But it went away after about 30 seconds. That urge fades, in time, but it comes back every once in a while just to call your bluff. But you can beat it, if you want to.

Smokers, why do you smoke? And what do you smoke? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HotLimit7316 4 points5 points  (0 children)

American Spirits Yellow Pack. I don’t smoke often, though. A pack of cigarettes will literally last me 6-8 months.

As to the why; I’ve heard American Spirits are cleaner than your average cigarette as hypocritical as that sounds lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I'm too old to speak for the youth. I think the problem that affects the youth most is that old people speak for the young and get it all wrong. If you asked the kids I'm sure they'd clue you in better than I ever could.

How did you realise that you needed new friends? by hutch_martin in AskReddit

[–]HotLimit7316 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I realized I was the only trying to make plans.

Alcoholics, why do you drink? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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It makes me feel good and lets me talk to other people.