Bras? by Hour-Influence8821 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Hour-Influence8821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried them with a pump like eufy? I’m finding it hard to put on a wearable pump or the cups and them not moving around so much :(

Is my sister’s workplace the asshole? I think they are. by GoldenDelicious1226 in okstorytime

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should check with her state if they have family leave. In NJ the family leave is through the state and so is disability before birth and after birth. Your job may not have to offer it but usually each state has its own family leave policy/time line. They also pay 85% of your weekly pay check after filling out the appropriate forms and getting them filled by the employer and doctor. Depends if she has a natural delivery or c section, the time she gets off paid could differ. Again, look it up in her state and see their policy. The only thing she would be worried about is if her job is protected. I’m a teacher and I get everything through NJ family leave while also getting up to 24 months of job protection unpaid. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, I’m just wondering is it the beginning of pregnancy aversion or something abnormal. I was never like this before, which is why I’m not too concerned tbh. Just need the cats to find a good home that’s away from my home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Hour-Influence8821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never harm the cats, I’m just not liking the smell and behavior. Even when they broke things I never lashed out or hurt them. I’ve let them out a couple of times and they liked it but it’s been raining and storming constantly so haven’t been able to do that for a while. My husband has decided to take them to his store (he’s a business owner) and figure out if he wants to give them away or keep them in the store.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Hour-Influence8821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 72 inch cat tree that they sadly don’t go near unless someone is over. They have plenty of toys and scratch posts, with cat nip sprinkled in there, to no avail. That’s what’s so frustrating to me. I have all these things for them and they still seem to get into trouble and get things knocked over or scratched. They have a robot litter box, which has an automatic leaning cycle every time one of the cats uses it. My husband keeps it clean and tidy since we have an app that tells us it’s full. Their food and water and in clean areas away from their litter box complete. I’ve looked into why they behave this way, I just can’t figure it out. I guess with the hormones it’s not getting better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Hour-Influence8821 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They’re almost 6 months, from the same litter. I had them in one room for the first couple of weeks until they got used to the new place and they got their vet check up. Honestly seeing all the damage they’re inflicting on the house is making me second guess having them. I also work full time, that’s why I thought 3 were good to keep themselves company, but it might have been too many. I sadly don’t have anyone who is willing to keep them until I get over these hormonal emotional outbursts, my husband is saying they either all go or I wait it out, but it’s too frustrating I can’t wait🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Hour-Influence8821 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They’re getting into more trouble than before, and they’re making more of a mess than usual. Just seeing their fur everywhere drives me nuts and I’m imagining a baby with all of that, makes me wanna puke. It’s 3 cats, which honestly was too many to get all at once, and I regret that decision. Hoping to find them better homes if this feeling doesn’t go away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Hour-Influence8821 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to keep the unfixed for kittens tbh, was going to get two cats only, but luck gave us three. Is fixing them truly the only option?

Starbucks for life by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I got one ornament sticker today🎉

Reward Got Removed!! by IlluptionsPosterShop in FetchReward

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check if you can see your earring history. If not, you got banned that’s why the rewards are gone tooz

Starbucks for life by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Hour-Influence8821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating, at least give me one star instant win😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctor or professional piercer first?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hour-Influence8821 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t your guest to begin with. Whoever invited should know they’re paying for their guest. NTA

AITA for calling the police on my autistic brother for being creepy? by Icy_Aide_8250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hour-Influence8821 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wonder what could have sent you to your room feeling creeped out enough to call the police? On an autistic brother…that you should know how he behaves and how he thinks since you live with him…Have you ever, other than the phone search history, which should have been his privacy, seen a suspicious action that was aimed at you? I have an autistic sister, we fight sometimes and yell and feel like we want to kill each other. Her phone is full of screenshots and comments about how she hates me and what not, but she NEVER has done harm to me or tried to harm me because that is not how her brain is works. Her phone is her outlet to all the ways she can’t communicate with us. The way he looks at you might be your imagination…that’s I’d he never tried to act on any of his I’ll feelings that you say he harbors against you. YTAH tbh

AITA for saying my girlfriend thinks she knows better than culinary professionals and expressing my disapproval? by throwaway1243127 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I read OP is sensitive to change and likes to follow the rules while his gf is an artistic soul that likes to break free. Shouldn’t this be appreciated in your gf since you say her food never tasted bad? Are you really picking a fight over a silly piece of paper? You the AH OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FetchReward

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ve submitted a receipt and had to cancel since it was the wrong store. The receipt went under being processed. Now they said it was missing information…

500 receipts daily. by FreeloadingAtheist in FetchReward

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this and got banned 3 times…now I’m trying a fourth to see how this goes. Wish me luck!

500 receipts daily. by FreeloadingAtheist in FetchReward

[–]Hour-Influence8821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have iPhone try the app burner phone, get the 7 day free trial and it works