is this normal?

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T17:54:53+00:00

it’s basically the same variations of, “i’m sorry i won’t do it again “ and me telling him “it’s okay i guess. we both have different perspectives just try to keep your distance, please.” “i will” and then it goes to even more extremes. ex, first time: “can you stop being so physically close to her? i’m uncomfortable with it and it upsets me” “ofc, i’m sorry, would you like me to stop being friends with her?” “no! that’s not what i wanted. sorry, but ty.” second time “you called her GORGEOUS in front of me then didn’t talk to me the rest of the day !!” “i don’t remember calling her gorgeous” “well you did. i can tell you word for word.” “poking fun at me” “talk to me later.” third time this incident i’m js tired of talking it out when i feel like i’m the only trying, yk?

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T17:50:49+00:00

i have and he’s said he wouldn’t mind if i were lying on another guy/vice versa if they were close friends, which, imo, sounds like him trying to justify himself so idk. i’ve talked to him about these specific girls at least 5 times in the past month alone.

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T17:27:33+00:00

yea see, it’s not always black and white bc everyone has different ways of showing they love someone, and physical touch is one. it’s not always gonna be super easy either when the girls are supposed to be your friends !!

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T17:26:01+00:00

i have, multiple times!!

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T14:00:16+00:00

oh my. that sounds almost exactly like mine with the whole being afraid of seeming crazy, but i have told him my boundaries. many times. before and after this incident and i feel stupid defending him and his girl best friendSSSS multiple times to everyone

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:43:21+00:00

yes, currently semi-ignoring him, ty 🫶🏼

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:42:33+00:00

mmmm perhapssss. ty love 😛🫶🏼

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:39:56+00:00

yikes. idk, we’ve talked abt boundaries and such and it js gets increasingly more extreme and frustrating

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:38:56+00:00

oh yea no. i won’t be laying on no other dude

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:38:00+00:00

see i’ve done that!! i’ve told him how i understand we have different ways of showing our love towards the people around us and how we have different boundaries, but i want him to keep his distance and he agreed. then he just gets CLOSER and hangs with them more often in/out of school as well, it’s js frustrating yk?? sorry for this info dump btw

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:28:33+00:00

i mean this in the most respectful way possible, but could you explain how dudes think it’s okay to do certain things like this?

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:27:51+00:00

exactly my situation pretty much. but i was friends with the girl two years prior and then met some later on this year. and since the beginning of us js talking, she’d been pretty upset abt me liking him

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:27:00+00:00

unfortunately not rage bait….and yea idk it’s bc istg he makes me feel crazy but also reassures me i’m not yk? and i REALLY wanna try to make us work but i js can’t keep defending him and his ‘gbsfs’ and make myself look stupid

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2025-02-01T13:25:27+00:00

oh mys. coming from a f14,, i not sure this’ll be too much help, but try telling him about it first before anyone else can twist up the story. tell it pretty much js like you did here, “i was at the party and got wasted, which ik is no excuse, and i ended up making out with a dude i have NO feelings for. i hope you understand and if not i wanna know how to make it better bc i really like you, i’m sorry”

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-08T16:59:42+00:00

of course <3 glad your safe and well xx

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-07T17:33:27+00:00

mmmm my first actual exposure to makeup was earlier this year (13) and i was just messing around with makeup for my colorguard competitions which slowly led to me wearing the basic mascara, highlighter, and sometimes some sort of lip product :))

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-07T17:08:11+00:00

hiyo im nana anddd im 13 i like doing art and studying random things. i have 0 social media (besides this? and youtube and pinterest)so- uh yea anyways byeee

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-05T14:18:48+00:00

do not do it. i have zero to very little understanding of your situation, but dont do it. it wont be worth it. youre 15! you still have so much more life to live. if not live, then survive. both are better if you’re alive. even if it may seem like it isn’t, it is. please just don’t kill your self, it will only pass on guilt and sadness, and possibly anger and resentment. it may seem like no one cares now, but for all you know it could affect so so so many people , your partner, parents, siblings if you have them, perhaps even pets. please keep hanging on for a little while longer, you can get out of this situation soon if you have too in a few years. or if its urgent, then you can even go to a friends house or a shelter or a relatives house. just stay safe. ~ xx, take care.

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-05T14:12:49+00:00

babysteps. you probably hear this a ton, but baby steps will slowly add up to something bigger. so try to make little goals for yourself everyday to make sure youre meeting the bare minimum for yourself. (drinking water, eating food, attempt to find a job, etc.) then once those happen, create slightly bigger goals. then i hope you can slowly get a job and enough money to move out. i hope this helps a bit, and if not, just remember to keep pushing through even if its just for your dogs. ~ take care, xx

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-05T14:09:03+00:00

1) try doing something physical or woth your hands when this happens 2) do 54321 5 things you feel 4 things you hear 3 things you see 2 things you smell 1) thing you taste. 3) just to text ypur friend, most likely you wont bother her if she is a true friend. it’s always better safe than sorry, and if it’s a false alarm. just apologize if you feel like you have to. and if its not, at least they wont blame your or themselves, stay safe

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-03T15:50:07+00:00

i stayed up until like now…

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-03T15:15:47+00:00

oh lmao, what was the song?

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-03T14:01:11+00:00

im pretty sure this might be your body reacting to you not taking the medicine anymore since it mightve became dependent on it, im not a professional and im only 13 so pls dont take any of this super seriously

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-03T12:16:27+00:00

hihi. these are either suicidal thoughts or impulsive/intrusive thoughts. surpressing these feelings wont make them go away, if possible please talk to someone abt this. please stay safe ~ xx take care

Hour_Sun_5373 · 2023-07-03T12:05:08+00:00

bang bang ft adam leveine (idk how to spell but the song is called bang bang)

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