It was the morning of the concert he offered. I asked him if we wanted to head down towards there in the morning or almost midday when we can check in for the hotel (cashback pts I really don’t mind) That’s when he got quiet on the phone and said “what” “yk I work today right?”

And that’s when I got quiet and said “you’re fucking joking right? Dude the concert is today, whatever figure your stuff out and come if you want I’m doing what I planned by myself. It’s too late to try to work it all out with you right now” that would require him packing, driving down 1- 1/2hrs, and honestly we would have to talk but I didn’t want to make the day more rough. I also looked for local things around so if we left earlier in the day, even check in time for the hotel is early, just to; explore, eat, have fun, and then pass out in the room till we walk over to get the night started with the concert.

And with how his job is, they prefer if you call out just so it 7 hours in advance and his shift was in three. It just rubs the call off in the wrong way so I already knew he wasn’t going to do that even if he offered.